we are both 20 but I am a virgin. We have only been on 2 dates but I feel like he wants it to go further already. I am not asking him to wait forever just more than 2 dates. And it is really difficult for me bc I am really attracted to him.
2007-03-15 01:45:56 · 15 answers · asked by annonymus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
2 dates?? wait till your ready
2007-03-15 01:52:39 · answer #1 · answered by Amber 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, of course he does. We guys are like that!
Seriously, don't use sex as a reward. Don't budget it based on number of dates, how attracted you are, he is, or what others tell you is right.
Do you have some moral basis for deciding about the nature and meaning of sexual activity? If so, and you are committed to those morals, then act according to them. If not, then you might want to think through what sex means to you and act accordingly.
It's a dangerous sexual world, and you could end up regretting becoming sexual too soon, with the wrong partner(s), and with unwanted health outcomes. It can also be wonderful, fulfilling, and fun.
Perhaps you need a counselor who can speak to your individual, unique needs. (Rabbi, priest, minister, psychologist, shaman, guru, etc. Just pick one that fits your belief system.)
2007-03-15 01:57:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this! Don't put, "Sex" on a Time Table. Have Both Hearts, say when it's time. It's an old-saying? But it should be the guidelines to happiness? So may other relationships, fail, `cause they rush into things. The Heart, is where the action should be. There's the answers to what should happen, when. You would want your Heart, involved if you were gonna Marry Him? Then both hearts, should be there, to share your Body with. Good Luck.
2007-03-15 02:01:42 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be expecting sex soon but ultimately you are the one that holds the keys to that ride. If your not ready, then there is nothing he can do about it. Just make your you let him know that your not ready yet. If he truly likes you and respects you then he will wait. Be patient, your only a virgn once.
2007-03-15 01:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do what YOU want to do. But remember, this is the one you are going to remember forever. Even if you don't stay together and break up in a month or two, the memory of your first time will never change so make it a good one.
2007-03-15 01:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by I know EVERYTHING! 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
just tell me straight out, that you really like him but you want to wait until you're ready. You don't know when that might be, but you'd really like him to hold out until that time. If he cant wait, all that means is that he's not worth giving it up to. Be honest with yourself about what it is that you want and to the point with him so he's clear on where you're coming from.
2007-03-15 01:53:35 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to see if he's just after sex, make him wait. the first time is special, so you want the first guy to be special. if he;s into you, he won't mind the wait. if he just wants sex, get a new guy. there's nothing wrong with being a virgin.
2007-03-15 01:54:41 · answer #7 · answered by billyjoemikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really likes you he will wait until you are 100% ready do go to the next step..take all the time you need...if he doesnt want to wait then he is not worth the chance..GOOD LUCK
2007-03-15 01:51:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi annonym,
since both of ur mature enough there is no difficulty in having sex. tell him what u want and u feel about him. he will definitely reciprocate. enjoy the life!
2007-03-15 01:55:46 · answer #9 · answered by amarnath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It usually happens on the third date. That is just typical. Don't sweat it.
2007-03-15 01:52:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋