I dont know whats wrong with my friends these days ! they just cant get enough of sex ! ! Whenever we see a girl they just keep talking about her for a long time ! ! And what they talk is about her boobs ! ! I am not saying that I dont like girls but what I dont like is this addiction ! Ever guy in this world likes a girl but this dosent mean that we shouldnt respect them ! How will a girl feel when she comes to know about it ! Well this has happened once with us that a girl came to know that we were taking this crap about her . I actully did not say anything but who would beleive me ! Please friends tell me some ways to make them understand because they are my friends and its our group so I cant just leace them ! ! ! Please HELP ! ! !
2007-03-15 01:12:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow. you must be really really young...
not tainted by the outside world yet.
not conditioned by others to think of women as meat, or eye candy yet..
you are sensitive, and caring and loving.. and how old are you again.....
keep your positive attitude towards women and you will find what all men desire, a loyal loving woman that will be more than happy to be with you and take care of you for the rest of her life..
they are hard to come by ( men like you) so you will be in high demand if you keep going the way that you are.
don't talk smack to 'fit in' with the others. you might feel out of place now. but i assure you, it will reward you later.
I promise.
oh, but to your question. you just keep doing what you are doing. they are your friends, and i am sure that everyone will tell you don't be friends with them. that's not going to 'fix' the problem.
everyone has different opinions, but as long as you stick true to you and yours, you will be just fine. i don't agree with my friends all the time. some of us are as different as night and day. but i love them just the same...
good luck with everything.
2007-03-15 01:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a new group of friends or tell the ones you have you do not appreciate the way they are talking about girls. Tell them there are more to girls than the way they look. How would they feel if girls started talking about them and comparing their private body parts. How would your friends feel if a girl looked at him and said to another female friend. "Hey look his (private part) is so small."
Are your friends really sexually active or are they just trying to impress others by talking big.
A girl will respect you more if you treat her with kindness and respect. The next time you and your friends are out together and they begin talking inappropriately about girls, put your foot down and tell them you do not appreciate the way they are talking and show them how a real man acts and behaves. A real man respects the opposite sex while a jerk never learned how.
2007-03-15 01:38:10 · answer #2 · answered by sunchine girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you actually in the wrong group of people? Do they cause you to be addicted to girls' boobs and sex? Do they manipulate you to be perverts?
You must consider this. Friends are what affect us most, beside the books that we consume. Choose your friends wisely and, yes addiction to sex if very very bad and exploit women. Remember that beauty is skin-deep.
2007-03-15 01:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you will make some woman very happy in the near future . you are right men should put women up on a pedistal , not to gauk at like so many of us do !they should be made to feel like a queen and treated with respect . and as for your friends some will never get over it and others will come to realize you dont look at a woman /girls as objects even tho some of them make it very difficult! your friends will grow up dont worry bout it to much lol
2007-03-15 01:23:50 · answer #4 · answered by gands4ever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys now in day so sadly they just thinks about sex and not only guys girls too, it is so sad that the feeling of been with some1 for love got lost. i if you are not like that thanks God. is not only your friend is almost everyone. don't feel bad be your self, respect you and respect women because believe those guys they don't even respect them self
2007-03-15 01:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by RED ROSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...what my brother once did was say out load "is sex all y'all can talk about??" he said this so seriously that, another friend piped in "yeah is that all y'all can talk about"....it had a ripple effect-lol
so they spoke about......sports-lol (&still sex, but not so often anymore)
It takes just one!!....let them see ur point of view, if its saying it with one line or really convincing them.
It helps if they have sisters to use that as an example (no way they'd want yall to talk that way about their sisters)
2007-03-15 01:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it's a guy thing to talk about sex u know that, but when u are in a relationship it will be over :) so u should find them girlfriends
2007-03-15 01:22:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what to ans its a big comment about ur friend so aht to ans just ask the question brief
2007-03-15 01:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by luv2yas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur friends are ignorant about boobs! they are too maniac about that. u should make another topic to avoid that thing..or unless ur insecure ^^
2007-03-15 01:25:09 · answer #9 · answered by dxterz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are fighting a loosing battle buddy
2007-03-15 01:22:15 · answer #10 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋