Sometimes I get the feeling my friend likes me, but I keep telling myself it's not possible. Whenever he sees me he smiles - a proper, face-lighting-up smile. He sometimes smiles at me across the room for no particular reason. When we're walking somewhere he walks really close to me, but I might be imagining that. He'll often sit next to me, either when we're at friends' houses or at church (where I know him from). Recently he's started apologising if he doesn't sit with me - saying things like 'I've just got to go and talk to ...' when I'd made no mention of him sitting with me. I talk to him a lot, and sometimes he asks me questions like when my birthday is. He tells me a lot about himself and his family, and has confided in me when he's had problems with one of his friends. He'll always talk to me when he sees me, and sometimes I get the impression he's trying to be close to me or coming to things because he knows I'll be there. He's shy so it's hard to tell what he's thinking.
2007-03-15 01:11:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he kjust wants to get to know you cos he likes you but to shy to say so. make him feel welcome and understand that he doesn't want you to be upset with him so he is always justifying himself...assure him its alright and just get to know him back if you want...he'll tell you in his own time if he is looking for more..good luck
2007-03-15 01:17:23 · answer #1 · answered by LusT aFter INsaNIty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like he might have a crush, or he really wants to be really good friends with you. If you are not interested in him that way, just make talk about some one else that you are interested in, just to make him aware. It can be a lite way of telling him, since he hasn't come right out and told you. As for the closness between the two of you, i sounds nice, he really sounds like a great guy, but maybe he is trying to find himself, and feels most comfortible around you. You may be helping him get over his shyness. If the things he is doing are not bothering you, then just leave things alone, but it does sound like he might have a crush on you. If you like someone you might be doing the same things. You could ask him, but that might destroy your relationship if he is shy. He might close up and stop attending church and other activities to avoid running into you. I don't know if this has been any help. But i tried.
2007-03-15 08:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by casady96 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You actually answered your own question when you stated, in the final sentence, that HE IS SHY! Many men, even in a very friendly relationship, have difficulty expressing themselves. He probably REALLY wants to tell you how much he likes you, but is unable to, mainly for fear of rejection. My guess is you are shy yourself, but if you really want to know how he feels, then try to get up the courage to ask him. You then will know how he feels, and then you can take the relationship in whatever direction you may want it go. Remember, our whole lives are dependent on interaction and communication.
2007-03-15 08:29:15 · answer #3 · answered by capt.john.sparrow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is what do you think he wants???? What are you wanting out of the "relationship?" Sometimes guys just want to be friends (and there's nothing wrong with that) and there's no ulterior motive....get to know the guy first and then ask yourself the prior questions I asked you.
2007-03-15 08:21:11 · answer #4 · answered by stoutunicorn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not shy at all. He's given you every possible sign that he likes you, but you're so busy "decoding" his every approach that you can't see beyond your own suspicions. There's nothing to decode and there are no impressions to get. The guy likes you. If you like him as well, start acting like it.
2007-03-15 08:19:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got the female intuition going on. because youare friends he doesn't know how you will react towards him so he choses to send you little signals for youto catch on. HEY, HE LIKES YOU ALREADY!
2007-03-15 08:18:17 · answer #6 · answered by Snickerlicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes your company, so enjoy his. Be friends for awhile and see where that takes you ;)
All the best mate
2007-03-15 08:17:59 · answer #7 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋