We dated for 2 yrs. Things were good initially. In this period i was cheated on, lied and disrespected . Now im seeing this other guy and have hurt him a couple of times by lying to him and meeting my ex. He took me back everytime. I have done it again to him and the reason is again my ex. My ex wants me back and promises to treat me right and also is willing to marry me and speak to my parents. What is the right thing. Forget the new guy in my life who has only given me love or give my ex who i love deeply for 2 yrs another chance. Am confused. Cant get myself from moving on with anyone else. Will he let me down again???
2007-03-15 01:10:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will fall flat on your face if you go back.
be real , your ex is not a nice person, whether you love him or not is not the facts here.
He is an immature, cheating and unfaithful guy.
Is this what you want in your future????
You are being conned into submission my dear. wake up and smell the coffee.
he is telling you everything you want to hear and more, just so that he can play with you again.
Hello!!!!!!!!!
This new guy seems like the decent sort, and you have now become like your ex treating him ike dirt, hurting him...
what the heck is happening to you.
This person that is not nice is rubbing off on you. You are compromising your morals and your standards cause you like to be treated badly......
I can't understand that......
Look to the future for happiness and let the past go where it belongs.
Your experiences with people are your lessons, lessons to learn and get on with your life. And hopefully you won't make the same bad choices again.
Dump him off at the next curb.....
2007-03-15 01:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are so unsure whether he will let u down or not, though u say u love him deeply
(2 yrs)!
If in such a long time , he has not been able to assure u and make u trust him, I think it is not worth it!
U left him because he lied ...etc to u.
Ur current has not still left u , though he wud've sensed u were up to meeting ur ex............no one's dumb!
So maybe he understands that u need time to get over ur ex.
And he is doing just that by giving u ur space ....it comes across that he deeply cares about u and feels for u.
U loved ur ex.
He did not love u.
U chose ur current.
He loves u.
U r getting only conflicting and confusing messages fromj ur ex.
Stick to ur decisions, girl!
U definitely sound like u made a good decision when u left him!
Don't let him manipulate u and ur self respect!
Get hold of ur life!
2007-03-15 08:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by mari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, right now you are looking ideal to your ex and he is realizing what a jerk he was. One thing is, once you two are back together he will cheat again, he will lie again, and he will treat you like dirt again. It's how it goes with life. Tell him to move on and find another chick that will put up with his crap and stick to the new guy. He sounds like he really loves you or he wouldn't have put up with your lying. Furthermore, why are you lying to meet your ex?? Do you not remember how that felt to know your ex was cheating on you?? Why do that to anyone if you KNOW how bad it hurts??
2007-03-15 08:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe in yourself and test people with time. Nobody here can tell you the best for you. Only you have to test both of them that who is the best for you. Being friends to both of them would be a good idea, time will let you know the best for you.
2007-03-15 08:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by Goldman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your heart. who do you truly love? you have to sort out your feelings. trust your heart. are you willing to give your ex a second chance? do you trust him to not hurt you again? ask yourself those questions. good luck.
2007-03-15 08:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by heartiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him another chance and try to work things out with him,together.. if your love is still strong why not?
2007-03-15 08:16:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sure will let you down again, and again, and again!!!!! You know this so move on with your life, and you cab do it!
2007-03-15 08:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋