Last night I got high.. and Niki and I (my girlfriend) were talking on the phone, and she was pouring her heart out to me, and I was to her.. only everytime she said something bad about herself, Id feel really bad and change the subject I was so stupid, I would change the subject and say something goofy, to try to cheer her up.. but she got really pissed and asked me why I was doing that and I told her, and she said not to do it, and then later on in the night I was stupid enough to say it again, and we got into a fight, and she said I dont care about her I only care about myself, and she kept going with that, its not true. Well, she hung up on me.. and I thought I heard this ring but no one was on the other line, and I was high so I was like confused. So I was talking into the phone for 10 minutes and no one was answering to anything I was saying, so I thought I was going nuts, so I called the number
and got the answering machine, so I was even more confused.
2007-03-15 01:06:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then I finally got through... and all I could hear was " You love me, dont hurt me.. blah blah call me when your sober, its over.." So..I think she broke up with me.. I dont know.. I ******* hope not, I mean before we got into this fight I was talking about how I cant stand messing up all the time and she went on to say she thought I was great, I told her I thought she was amazing, but anyways.. I dont know what the **** I was thinking.. but I was really masochistic and ended up hurting myself, and the fact that I even tried to scared the **** out of me, I had said I'd stop smoking weed to her last week, but did again last night, I dont know why it was right there and I was feeling depressed. But now I dont know what the hell to do.. we were talking and she said that she hates me and loves me, and I dont want us to break up,
2007-03-15 01:07:34 · update #1
when I say call me when your sober, I mean she played the song and hung up on me
2007-03-15 01:20:03 · update #2
Go see your doctor, tell him you have a problem with weed and ask for help to get you off it, Tell your girlfriend you are doing this. THEN DO IT.
Don't ask her to wait for you, tell her that when you are clean you will be looking for her and hoping she'll take you back. She might choose to stick with you now and support you, but don't think that means you can stop seeking treatment for this addiction.
Acknowledge that you have made some bad choices and try to think what your life will be like if you don't make changes now. Depression, injuring yourself, losing friends and loved one....
Apologise to her, accept that she was right - you didn't care about her, only yourself, when you chose a drug over her feelings - and realise that actions speak louder than words.
2007-03-15 01:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by donedeal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm, I think she is right once u sober up and can think straight u will be in a position to talk to her, otherwise u will just waste both her time and urs.
2007-03-15 08:18:57 · answer #2 · answered by loves_nature 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well just ask her sorry for your behavior and please tell her why you do that. I know you don't like her talking bad about yourself. Tell her the same. You will get her back nothing is gonna happen. I will pray for you k. God is there with you.
2007-03-15 08:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by Bacti 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol may be she was singing call me when youre sober and she would like to dedicated it in to you
2007-03-15 08:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by dxterz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya ninny stop killin ya brain cells by getting high! call her up and say your sorry!
2007-03-15 08:30:22 · answer #5 · answered by godelectedme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋