My mom is getting married today, and a couple months ago I told here i was happy for her. Truth is I'm not. I dont want my mom to get married but I want her to be happy. Am I selfish for not wanting her to get married. What can I do to just get over it?
2007-03-15 00:57:11 · 10 answers · asked by desde593 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I thank you each for your answers, but the wedding was cancelled. But thank you all anyway.
2007-03-15 02:27:59 · update #1
If getting married will make your mom happy then you are selfish for trying to keep her to yourself. Everyone wants someone they can grow old with, your mom will grow old before you and who will be there for her? As longs as the man treats her right and makes her happy, that's all you should care about.
2007-03-15 01:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by GirlsDeadMonster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
No you are not selfish, infact you love her a lot. But probably you are insecure about ur relationship with her and ur step father. The only solution is adapt the changes and think from ur mom's point of view, Put yourself in her shoes. she is there for you always but she too needs somebody's support. You should be happy that god is giving her opportunity to live life again. Cheer Up and Accept it happily else ur mom will be guilty of doing something against ur wish and probabaly it could result into further unhappiness.
I am sure u don't want this.
2007-03-15 01:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by nee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up a little bit. Your mother has a right to get married the same as you do later on. Would you want your mother to tell you that you couldn't date and had to stay home and be with her and never get married? She will not love you any less and you will have a step father who might turn out to be a great guy if you give him a chance.
2007-03-15 01:02:29 · answer #3 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may overlook who your mom is marrying and your perfect pal for a mutually as and decide no remember in case you are the perfect your mum and little brother merits. i think you're and additionally you will upward thrust particularly the different frustrating little issues that are occurring to be the single individual those 2 can count number on. In that function, on your mom, you'll be hassel loose for her and that distinctive time it is drawing close. perfect desires in being the perfect daughter/sister you'll be. go away each and every person else and communicate people who're in all probability in keeping with you the main; your loved ones! XX
2016-10-02 04:01:43 · answer #4 · answered by condom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry you are having trouble with it. the best way to not think about ourselves and our own feelings is to get involved with something else.....such as your mother. maybe this is a time to think about all that she has given you, and that she deserves some happiness, too. maybe you could just ask her what YOU could do for her to make today better....get involved with her happiness and if you really love your Mom, you'll be smiling before you know it. have a happy day.
2007-03-15 01:01:50 · answer #5 · answered by The French Connection 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are very normal. You will feel sad, disappointed and will have a fear that you are loosing her. Do your best to make her happy. Be a loyal child.
Change your life pattern. Do more to keep yourself occupied. TIME WILL HEAL
2007-03-15 01:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy. LET HER LIVE. That is not fair that you are trying to run her life. What if she did that to you? It is not right. Do the guy beat her? Rape her? Taking her money? If the answer is no, you need to suck it up and support her, like you would want her to do. I am not trying to jump down your throat and belittle you. But I am a grown man who have to live my life that way I seem fit. It would make me angry that my kids would try to stop me. Please try to be more understanding for your mother.
2007-03-15 01:11:41 · answer #7 · answered by Michael b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you did was right..It's normal you'll feel jealous about your mom remarriage...Just accept the reality that "THAT'S LIFE"..you will understand later that that is how life goes on...When you see your mom's happiness you will learn to accept it and be happy about it.
2007-03-15 01:04:23 · answer #8 · answered by marje 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
focus on your mom....now that the wedding was cancelled she needs you more than ever
2007-03-15 04:04:05 · answer #9 · answered by Sweetserenity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow....be happy for her and keep a positive attitude about it...if you feel badly about it, keep those feelings to yourself
2007-03-15 01:00:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋