I love my girlfriend but we dont see each other enough?

Question

ilive about 9 miles from my girlfriend and neither of us drive how can i keep the love there? we have been together for a good year now but i dont want to loose her shes all ive got cn sum1 please help thnx

Answer 1

you already said that you dont want to lose her.. well, sacrifice the distance w/out having to give up or one of you has to move nearer. ..but if moving to another place as of now is difficult due to commitments...keep the line open. call or visit each other whenever possible. see more in terms of the end result as this being away from each other is only temporary but keeping the love will go a long way. Of cors when you decide to marry her, you wouldn't be living like this anymore so its a small price to pay for a good catch. hang on.. if you stop putting an effort to keep each other, you are on your way to losing her.

Answer 2

Dangerous statement: She's all I've got. I wouldn't want someone laying that on me.

9 miles isn't very far, in fact, its walkable. I'm assuming there is no mass transit. I strongly suggest bicycles. Used ones can be pretty cheap. You could even share one and take turns riding it to and from.

Trust me; you are all you've got and if you want to have a healthy relationship, you won't lay your complete happiness in her lap. Its too much responsibility and noone should be responsible for maintaining your emotional health but you. LOL

Answer 3

why don't your parents take you there or pick her up and bring her over i realize 9 miles is along ways without a car but you can ride bikes and meet each other half way..I use to ride bikes longer then that just to ride, we also had horses we rode all the time..

Answer 4

Move in together or move to where she lives so you can take public transportation to see each other..

Answer 5

get the bus learn to drive arrange to met half way

Answer 6

that is the reason why you love her. LOL