It's now been over a year since I broke up with him and I have had a new boyfriend ever since but there's not one day that goes by that I don't think of my ex, something always reminds me of him, and not one week that I don't cry about missing him. But i can't picture us together things have changed so much. It sucks! I spoke to him over the phone this morning, had a fight as always coz i broke his heart n he wont let me live it down ... and now I'm in the worst mood EVER! In a rutt! this sucks!
2007-03-15 00:46:47 · 8 answers · asked by kamazeee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of course, you will forget your ex boyfriend! time heals the wound in your heart, trust me! just make yourself happy.. its not the end of the world for you.. maybe there's someone better for you than your ex boyfriend... being broken hearted is really painful.. but that is part of being in love.. your hurt because you love him.. that's all!! but uL see. one day, uL forget him.. its not that easy but i can say, uL be over with him one day..
2007-03-15 00:54:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth, this does take time. I myself do always thing of my ex-girlfriends that I had way back in Jr. High and High School some 30 years ago. The worst thing about ex's is that you share alot with each other and these are parts of you life that you never hope to forget, good times. Now I am married and very happy right now and my Wife does understand why I think about these old friends. She also knows that I have alot of High School Female friends on this computer with me but that that is a part of life that we all will never forget. It will take time but sooner or later, this ex will just become an old friend of yours from way back when. Take you time and do not hurt yourself because it did not work out between you to. You have and life, so live it!!!
2007-03-15 00:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going to suggest finding a new one, kind of like getting a new puppy, but it seems you've already been about that business....maybe a little prematurely, since you're still fighting with the old flame and talking to him over the phone. I feel sorry for you current boyfriend; he's fighting with a shadow. Why don't you burn your bridges? You're just feeding this. Memory is so selective, and we tend to forget there were reasons we ended a relationship. Then we look back longingly, and in doing so, we don't see opportunity looking us right in the face. Be in the moment.
2007-03-15 00:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A great way to get your ex back is https://tr.im/Pl0eK
They might realize they need you and come crawling back!
If you do get back together, don't let the same issues that destroyed your relationship crop up again. Have a good, long talk about how you're both going to make it right this time.
2015-02-04 06:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes this is so hard to get over but you must move on......if he has not wanted you back and it has been almost a year then i would try everything possible to quit thinking about him.......i know it has been since thanksgiving the man that was supposed to love me moved a woman right in with him because i chose to go be with my dying mother...so i am better off........but when you lost trust in a relationship whoever is at fault it is hard to get back the way it was before...and he does not sound like he wants to give you another chance...and it may take a while for you to even really enjoy being around another guy or man even though i do think it is best to try than sitting around hurting all the time.........
2007-03-15 00:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lady, time to move on. This is not fair to your current boyfriend. Why cry or think over things you don't have control over? Its over! Look forward before you lose the current boyfriend.
2007-03-15 00:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes. it will bug u for as long as u let it. get some hobbies, hang out with friends, move on. the more u sulk and sob the longer it takes. and most important of all....if ur ever going to heal and totally move on that means NO CONTACT!
2007-03-15 00:49:23 · answer #7 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dear u will forget about him but it will take time just try to focus on tomorrow not yesterday.
2007-03-15 00:52:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋