So me, my friend and this girl I really like went out to see a movie today. See she just broke up with her boyfriend, but it doesnt seem like shes taking it too hard. My friend said she wasnt looking for a new relationship or anything but in the movie we kinda started holding hands and I put my arm around her, and when we got back to my place kinda made out a bit. But see we're not really going out, so I dont really know if I should call or what not, It sounds like I should definately not just go up and kiss her at school or anything according to my friend... but I dont know where things are... like what do I do? Should I just pretend it was a one time thing and just handel the akwardness after? I might be going to see a movie with her and another friend tomorrow and Ill be in the car me and her for a good 45 minutes.. can you say akward? lol. But I just dont know. Where does it sound like we stand to you guys?
2007-03-15 00:29:13 · 10 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tread lightly, my friend. Don't get uptight about it, but wait and let things play out. It could have been a passing moment, so it would be forgotten. Or maybe there is something more. In that cause, follow her lead. If she acts like she wants more, then you are safe. If you think that the tension is too much, then take her aside and talk to her privately. Either way, act natural and it will lay out.
Trust me, I been there
Good luck
2007-03-15 00:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by Michael b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see... I see no reason for it to be awkward. No, don't kiss her at school but talk and kid around with her. Then when you go to the movie it shouldn't be awkward at all. Well, you could call and ask in a joking manner if she is going to save you a place at the show. You don't have to pretend anything. You made out...big deal. Maybe, you will again. No need to rush into a relationship. Sometimes, the build up can be exciting. When things happen like BOOM there's a better chance of them ending just as quickly. But DON'T avoid her. And I'm still having trouble as to why this should be awkward. It will only be that way if you let it. Just go and have fun like you would any other time. If something happens, then it happens. K?
2007-03-15 07:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moves have been made. Just take you time and see where this leads both of you now. Do not stop being friendly with her. She may start to open up more along the way. Give her time since you say she just had a bad time!!!
2007-03-15 07:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one thing dont act like nothing happened! girls get confused when guys do this. it makes her feel like you were trying to use her. just treat her nice and do little flirty things around her until you have a chance to talk to her about what went down that night. or maybe call her and just talk about it on the phone before you guys go to the movies.......... and stop listening to your friend! if you like her... make another move........ your friend needs to stay out of it!........ the girl you like has a mouth, let her tell you if shes not ready
2007-03-15 07:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by jazzy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look there never really is a "right" time to date someone. anyone that will tell you otherwise is just wishing or has never really had anything crazy happen to them. love has no timing. it catches you at the wierdest times. i met my current boyfriend after i went outside of a bar and threw my drink at my ex. i walked back in and ran smack into this guy that is now my boyfriend. now we have been together forever. i certainly was not looking for the love of my life when i was emotionally unbalanced, crying, drunk and at my low point. you just have to make it clear to her the way my boyfriend did to me. that your in there for the long run and not trying to be a rebound guy. i hope this helps.
2007-03-15 07:36:58 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an opportunity to explain to her that you both went to quickly, but would still like to see her without the making out.
2007-03-15 07:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is considered as a group outting so don't think too much about it. All that you need to do is to leave her your contact numbers and see if she'll ever call. If she does, its a good sign. If not, tough luck! Move on.
2007-03-15 07:33:47 · answer #7 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gee if she was making out with you after just breaking up with her boyfriend it does not sound serious to me...i know i could not do this after breaking up with someone if i cared about them....so i would just ask her out and maybe ask her how she feels about you two dating.........
2007-03-15 07:33:40 · answer #8 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That your aditional details were to long to read at this time
2007-03-15 07:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by pas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask her?
2007-03-15 07:34:20 · answer #10 · answered by Phillip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋