Please help me..i had a relation wid two guys but i use to love them.. they ditched me. now i hv found the perfect man . But i din tell him anything of my past to him. Now he came to know somwhow, but i confess everything to him. But he dosent want to live with me. I am dying every minute. I m not a virgin, this really haunt me. wat should i do
2007-03-15 00:25:46 · 17 answers · asked by Aakriti 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
further i would like to add on that when i had proposed him he used to love me like anything,but meanwhile i entered into 2 or more extensive relationship with other guys and this very thing i again never told him,now he knows everything and that is all the problem.i used to flirt him whereas he was totally honest,how to make him forget everything,plz help me out..
2007-03-15 18:11:13 · update #1
tht's very unfair of him, that shouldnt be an issue. find someone else who will love you for what you are....
2007-03-15 00:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by faiza_t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look. Its not a crime not being a virgin. Ask the guy if he is a virgin. Chances are he isn't either. The guy is using virginity as an excuse to dump you. My dear, move on. Dump him and go look somewhere else. In future, be smart. Stop raking history. Leave history alone. When asked about your virginity, changed the subject.
2007-03-15 00:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by SGElite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
on a similar time because it is not a stable concept to open up a clean courting with the revelations of your previous, once you start to have a severe courting with somebody, you owe them the reality rather whilst marriage is a controversy. in view that virginity is a vital high quality for many people the two woman and male, they might desire to nicely known while you're a virgin with the intention to proceed in direction of matrimony. as on your previous coming to his interest by some ability, he could be very indignant which you probably did no longer come to him and tell him from the commencing up which you had previous sexual encounters. mendacity in ANY courting does not serve to augment it. and for some, mendacity is a entire deal breaker. communicate on your close by clergyman or a counselor to handle your thoughts on a extra very own point. tell this guy surely which you're sorry which you injury him and which you're feeling such as you will possibly want to proceed in a courting yet be keen to understand his edge of the coin if he says no. on a similar time as you won't have the ability to eliminate your previous, you could bypass forward and alter. in case you prefer to start lower back and stay with out intercourse until you detect the "surprising one", do no longer do issues that placed you right into a situation the place intercourse is the subsequent logical step. do no longer set your self up for the temptation. as quickly as you have began to have that form of intimacy with a guy, you won't have the ability to bypass lower back to being "only acquaintances".
2016-10-18 10:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you, your past would not matter to him. If he is using your past, that is no longer who you are, as the reason he will not marry you, then your marriage would not last. He will always be finding fault with you. In love and marriage each partner must accept the other with their faults. You need to move on, and find someone that loves you.
2007-03-15 00:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by lestermount 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves u, then he shld accept who u r, and if u r not a virgin, he shld be able to accept tt fact. If he doesn't then, move on sister.... He loves u for who u r or he loves ur virginity? Wld ur virginity be able to love him back?
Nope....
Why?
Coz once he breaks it, it is no longer there... So there u go. Ask him whether he loves u or that lil piece of skin tt will be torn off when he enters u...
2007-03-15 00:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by MISSinterpreted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself a more modern man who will accept you as you are. If you refuses to marry you for such a small thing now, what do you think he'll be like in 10 years?
2007-03-15 00:28:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dearest neha,
i am also an indian woman and i know how indian men cling to these false standards. they themselves are not virgins but they want to get one. how strange!all the men you have met in your life just wanted to use you, they never loved you. dont be sad for these *** wholes. you are a wonderful young woman and my advice is that forget these jerks and consentrate on your studies, soon you will see that there are men who are sensitive, caring and loving. not all men are bad. so forget the past and move on. best of luck to you.
2007-03-15 00:36:49 · answer #7 · answered by atahsina 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a winner? He is that pretentious, that he would throw away a perfectly good relationship because he found out that you where not a virgin. Does he have plastic wrap on his dick? Do what I do to all jerks tell them to get their head out of their *** and realise when they have it good.
2007-03-15 00:32:50 · answer #8 · answered by daboss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on this guy sounds like a jerk anyway, you will find someone soon,and there is nothing wrong with not being a virgin anymore, i don't think that was his reason for leaving it was just an excuse to go
2007-03-15 00:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you should move on. If his little mind cannot wrap around the fact that you had a life before he came along you are most blessed that he won't marry you.
2007-03-15 00:29:21 · answer #10 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What does living with a person have to do with getting married? Maybe he wants to wait until you are married.
2007-03-15 00:31:37 · answer #11 · answered by Phillip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋