we have been friends for a long time, and i know she loves me as a person and we are quite close. I love her cause of her quirks and her somewhat strange yet interesting habbits.... however today she acted differently....
I mentioned to her a few days earlier that i had feelings for her, Today - i asked her to meet me at the park - I was there - she was 15 minutes late, she came running and just ran and gave me this big hug and held on to me for a few seconds, then she took my hand and we started aimlessly walking and discussing strange and totaly random things....
I asked abt why she is so detached and why she has not gottten into a relation yet - she said - she's still healing and waiting for someone to get to that point where she knows that it may just be worth her time - she said she is waiting for something to hapen, and cant wait for love to happen again...
I was wondering what this means, as i did not uinderstand it.??
I want to be there? what do u think is happening?
2007-03-15 00:24:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
She seems to be very confused as to what she wants & which direction she is going in at the moment.
Give her alittle time, as she already knows what your going to ask her.& seems alittle scared to commit.
But if you feel she cannot answer you within your time limit, it's so hard, but if you to move on, if you can't wait, then you'll have to wait for her.
Woo her, take her to the movies, out to dinner, bring her flowers & perfume.
Happily ar sadly you will know whether she's yours or not after a time.
I feel for your heartache & your urgeny to know now!
2007-03-15 01:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you are male or female, so I have no idea if your friend is gay or straight. Maybe your friend is trying to tell you she has a crush on you and wants your friendship to become something more. Your best bet will be to confront her and to learn the truth now. It may be something worthwhile. Good luck and I hope your friendship remains strong.
2007-03-15 01:16:04 · answer #2 · answered by sunchine girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might like you, you'll never know until you say something. Ask her out on a date. The best relationships start out as friends first.
2007-03-15 02:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by schristine23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her.
There is no way to know.
A hug can mean 1000 things...on television it means sex, in our imagination it means another thing.....
You may miss your opportunity....
Call her for a date.
Tell her its a date.
Then tell her how much you like her.
2007-03-15 04:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetserenity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r at the least risk position, y not ask her directly whatever u want to and be sure if u r there or not. that wud be better than a thousand answers u receive here.
2007-03-15 00:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by Iliketodream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is to straight out ask her those questions. It could mean sooooo many things, lots of variables I'm sure.
2007-03-15 00:28:33 · answer #6 · answered by LetMeBe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you but is tellyou that she doesn't think of you in that way....stay her friend
2007-03-15 00:28:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋