Why is when a girl opens her legs to every tom dick and harry she gets called a sl*g or a ho-e? And when a girl doesn't want to open her legs to every tom dick or harry she gets called a D*ck tease?
Twice in the space of 2 months I have been called a D*ck tease just because I don't want to open my legs to 2 guys. I feel truly hurt about this. Am I better off a ho-e rather than having self respect?
2007-03-14 23:58:38 · 40 answers · asked by me_me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lady UR doing the right thing - bugger the world . The world does not help get up when u fall.
2007-03-15 00:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by sundeep s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a difference to being a d*ck tease and having principles.
If you used to be called a ho*e because you you were having regular sex with different partners, it also says something about how you approach guys.
Are you flirtatious, assertive, inviting? Are you "touchy - feely2, do you compliment guys heavily, how do you dance with a guy you've just met? Because if the only aspect of your personality that has changed between being called a h*oe and a d*ck tease the fact you don't 'open your legs' any more but still carry yourself in exactly the same manner as before with guys then refuse to get physical, then I'm afraid you are a bit of a d*ck tease.
If you want to gain a middle medium and project yourself with respect and in turn cause others to respect you in the same fashion then you'll have to make a change to the other parts of your personality when approaching or being approached by guys other than just the final decision to sleep with them. You can still be givin the impression that you will and leadin these guys on in which case they may be justified in their appraisal of your behaviour.
2007-03-15 01:54:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what other people think of you. If you are happy sleeping with someone, do it. If not don't and don't worry about what they might think.
If a woman choose to be a 'ho-e' as you say, it does not make her respect herself any less (she may have low self esteem or just like her freedom and not want to be in a relationship. It is not for anyone to judge the whys). She has just made a choice that she wants to. On the other side of the coin, just because you choose not to sleep with men, it does not make you a tease, unless you have implied you will do so and get them flustered and don't deliver.
Follow your heart, don't worry about what the rest of the world thinks, don't be hurt by other people opinions (because everyone is entitled to them, even if they are stupid) and make your own choices without doubt.
2007-03-15 00:09:54 · answer #3 · answered by Marlene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who ever is calling you that clearly has no respect for you, and basically is not worth knowing. You are clearly a sensible person, and why should give it to who ever wants it, when ever. Forget what these idoits say and stick to your guns, not only will this keep respect for yourself, but also those around you. You do what is right for you when you feel right with the right people, and if some small minded idiots have a problem with this well, thats there problem.
2007-03-15 00:04:30 · answer #4 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not ever be teased into doing something you do not want to do, it is your body and you have every right to say no when you want.
You are not a dick tease, you are dating low life scum with no respect for women, if you were dating nice guys they would never say this to you!
Do not do anything you do not want to do, I recommend finding a different type of man who will treat you with kindness and respect.
Self respect every time honey, and you will feel better about yourself.
2007-03-15 03:55:40 · answer #5 · answered by Loader2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's not the fact that you don't put out; it might be the promise of something to come that never materializes that gets them so irritated. Don't fret, eventually somebody will come along that you want to share that moment with and then the mystery is over; from that point on it doesn't matter how many times you do it, it'll never again be the first time. Now, as for the BEST time...there's always room for improvement!
2007-03-15 01:52:54 · answer #6 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no. ur fine the way u are. they are probably jealous, so long as u have not lead them on then u should not under any circumstances open your legs 2 these 2 guys, regardless of what they call you. ok be strong not silly. they will respect you in the long run. so keep strong. hope this helps
2007-03-15 00:05:54 · answer #7 · answered by dimples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats because son men dont have any respect for women , dosent meen your a tease ,
when woman do open there legs alot there called all sorts but when a fella does it thay get a pat on the back ,
i wouldnt worry about it you repect yoyrself and thats what counts.
2007-03-15 00:38:39 · answer #8 · answered by fafandloo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having self respect will gain you respect from others. I think your sensible, and stick by your guns. At least you'll have their minds running wild with thoughts hey? It's easy to become one that sleeps with lots of guys, but its diifcult to shift the rep when you want to setttle down or stop it. You're doing the right thing.
2007-03-15 00:15:51 · answer #9 · answered by Need_to_know 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear what your saying i met this guy and after a week we slept together now i no it was too soon but he kept pressuring me and saying I'm not serious but i fought i might as we get it over and done with. Now he's saying he don't like me he only used me to get what he wanted! I feel like such an idiot now. I think boys just do it to get what they want but i know for sure I'm not making that same mistake twice!
2007-03-15 01:05:28 · answer #10 · answered by Reene B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Character is never born or inherit
it is the value of morals with merit
what is right makes a stand against solicitation
Look at Rosa Parks(alone) she changed the laws of a nation
2007-03-15 00:12:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋