i am in love with my friend, she have boy friend for last 8-9 years, but when we came to know about each others feelings, she took the initiative and said that they have sacrifised there love due to family problems & as she loves me lot she wants to continue with me. i said ok & we have started the relation, but after some days i have realized that she is still in contact with him, continuousely meeting & talking (ignoring me also) but she kept telling me that she loves me the lot, she in contact with that old bf just bcoz of friendship, but now those contacts have been increased she is going to meet him by ignoring me & my feelings even if i am not allowing, she is telling me lie.. now she is saying that she wants to continue with him as he sacrifised a lot & he loves her lot, he cant leave without her, he has sacrifised his family & he had did lots of things for her AND SHE IS CONTINUING WITH HIM BY IGNORING MY FEELINGS
2007-03-14 23:49:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are paranoid and insecure and jealous... get over yourself...
if you don't like the situation, dump her and find someone else...
2007-03-14 23:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you really love this girl so much, and feels that you'll die without her, then fight for your love. Show her that you are a much better guy than her ex-boyfriend. BUT, if this girl really loves her ex-boyfriend, then just let her go, if you really love her. I mean, you do want to see her happy, right? Just move on and forget about her. There are a lot of other girls out there. I'm sure you're going to find another girl who will love you just as you love her, and who will never cheat on you.
2007-03-15 00:01:47 · answer #2 · answered by (>.<) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man she only used you in the first place as a shoulder to lay on when the first guy dumped her, and now that the guy is back, she is now dating you out of pity. Man be the Man you are and move along with your life and don't hurt yourself. Forget her she never loved you in the first place. Be a man, I know its not easy, but you have to forge ahead there are many fishes in the ocean. Goodluck Man.
2007-03-15 00:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by peter n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is almost impossible to brakeup a relationship after 9years. She has is own routine with the guy. The only way is loving her better than he did and having fun every day. Pro she only wants an affair and she is confused now
2007-03-14 23:55:22 · answer #4 · answered by F S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing you can do is to leave them both alone. i understand how you feel but I guess you can start moving without having this girl into your life from now on. as you noticed she is already messing up with you.
better find someone who will love you back, she is not worth to be love because she is selfish and self centered being created in this world.
2007-03-14 23:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by leoNpari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that once you are in love it's difficult to forget that person.
but you have to do this.
instead of asking her all the reasons, just stop communicating with her,cause she'll make more and more excuses.
love will come when it has to come.
you will definitely find a better person.
just be patient,don't utter a word to her.
i'm sure she'll feel guilty and open up.
2007-03-14 23:56:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well can you blame her she went out eith him 8-9 years, if she wants to go back with him get over her and move on it sounds like she really loves him stay well clear
good luck x
2007-03-14 23:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your as well as her feeling have bases of selfishness. Do not love her. She is as unreliable as u r for her. This relation will create much more complications further. Stop such relation & keep quiet.
2007-03-15 01:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is cheating, so the two gender is undesirable. yet whilst my boyfriend have been to cheat (unlike I certainly have a boyfriend besides lol) I particularly this is with a woman using fact if he cheated on me with a guy, then he might have additionally been mendacity approximately his sexual oreintation to boot as being a cheater!
2016-11-25 21:22:56 · answer #9 · answered by palmisciano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, didn't anyone tell you not to run after gfs. It is very difficult to decipher a woman's mind. Most of the girls are cheats. Don't trust them.
2007-03-14 23:53:25 · answer #10 · answered by neerajjain8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
step back and let her work things out. If she's still occupied with another relationship then the foundation of your new relationship will be very unstable. we all know you cant build something strong on an unstable foundation. set her free if she comes back , new ballgame.......
2007-03-14 23:55:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋