Im 16 years old and everyone keeps making fun of me because im a virgin and it really annoys me. I have been going out with this guy for five months now i love him to bits but should i loose my virginity to him, how do i know he wont hurt me after he gets what he wants ? Help Me !
2007-03-14 23:22:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off, congratulations on your virginity! Keep it! Don't be in a hurry to give it away, ESPECIALLY not because of peer pressure. Whether you realize this now or not, you will truly regret it later. Do what is right for you, not what so-called friends want you to do.
Be proud of your virginity and don't be afraid to let your friends know it. If they don't like you because you are a virgin, they really aren't your friends. If more people stood up for themselves and stuck to their beliefs when it comes to sex, there would be a lot less divorce and single mothers in the world.
The fact that you question or doubt his commitment (hurting you after he gets what he wants) means you don't have the trust needed for the commitment needed in a relationship.
You know you have found the right guy when you commit to marriage. Only then will you completely trust each other and know each other on the physical, emotional, and spiritual levels necessary to make your relationship last.
2007-03-15 04:12:15 · answer #1 · answered by Coach T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of girls regret losing their virginity at an early age or in a wrong situation, with the wrong guy, etc etc. If it doesn't feel right, then it's not right. Don't let your idiot friends or idiots on here tell you to just "lose it". You will know when its right, so go with your heart. Those friends who make fun of you won't know you when you're 25! I know it sounds stupid, but you will just know when its the right time, and if you don't know, then it's not right. Remember, you only get one chance to lose it!
2007-03-15 06:30:22 · answer #2 · answered by MissDivine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have waited this long, i congratulate you. let your friends say anything they want.. but the most important words you will hear in your life is::::: when your husband thanks you for saving all your love and your innocence for this special wedding night..
FORGET about trying to be like other girls, just tell them you are NOT virgin, and see how they act.....be stronger and wiser than those friends dear..
2007-03-15 06:40:25 · answer #3 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop worrying about losing your virginity to the right guy... just lose it and get over the paranoia girls seem to get themselves into these days about that...
2007-03-15 06:26:06 · answer #4 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will know if you imagine that you would like to make love with him for ever no matter if you are in a relashionship or not. with other words if you also like him us a friend.
2007-03-15 07:13:12 · answer #5 · answered by histvel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋