i'm afraid that while i'm away,he'll find a new girl of his life. I'll only be away for like 3 months but lots of things could possibly happen while i'm away.I need your help guys.I know I'm not in the position to get jealous or even prohibit him about something.I'm only his close pal, i don't even know if he really cares about me.I'm hooked up with this guy coz' something happened between us already.I feel in love with him coz' he was my first. I really wanted us to be more than friends.But i'm afraid to tell him. Guys pls,if ever you happened to have the same situation as mine...pls. advice me! Thanks a ton!
2007-03-14 23:21:48 · 6 answers · asked by starunner05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just sit him down and tell him like a couple of days before you leave so you can see what his reaction maybe at least you will be able to tell before you go.
2007-03-14 23:25:18 · answer #1 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems you are in a right situation there hunni, first thing to do is tell the guy before you go how you feel about him and then ask if he feels the same way as you do,you will never know unless you try otherwise you will go away for three months not enjoying yourself as you will do nothing but think about him for all three months wondering what could have been
Good Luck Hunni xx
2007-03-14 23:28:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Starunne, please dear don't hurt yourself. Do you know that when it comes to matters of the heart you don't joke with it ?. Why carry a heavy burden and go away when you could easily drop it and be free, which i am sure that you want to be (free). So take the bold step,,( if you don't know how to start.) take him to lunch and there let the cat out of the bag you might be surprise that he feels the same way about you too. Being away only fro three months is no big deal, if both of you strike up a relationship he will wait for you. Good luck.
2007-03-14 23:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by peter n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm what are you waiting on!!
You should tell him you have feelings for him. Tell him before you leave because you could regret it! when you leave he could find another person and then you'll wish you have told him you had feelings for him. So take a chance and tell him!
2007-03-14 23:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you guys having a relationship?? u tell him that u love him and ask him to sex with u might work...
2007-03-14 23:25:59 · answer #5 · answered by CELiNE:] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you should invite him round to your place, wear something VERY sexy and see what happens... :D
2007-03-14 23:24:51 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋