I am terribly perplexed with marriage and dating. marriage to me is sex and staying together. And then leaving kids in some unknown place. Is there a way i can have all the dating and sexual bliss without any encubrances like relatives and their kin. Why do people express their liquidity problems so openly here in this forum.
I have taken some sorts of anti depressants when there were downs and gone without all sorts of worldly pleasures like food and water. I do feel males dont masturbate and all **** on the dictionaries are pure, and its due to some unknown reasons that volcanoes flow down under.
2007-03-14 23:14:10 · 6 answers · asked by 1s 2s 2p 3s 3p 4s 3d 4p 5s 4d 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have a serious problem, my dear. You should consult a proper psychologist. Only he/she may be able to help you. You wont be able to find any proper answer to your problem on this forum.
Take my advice and visit a psychologist IMMEDIATELY.
2007-03-15 00:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by kchl_dk007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Question. I think you r not aware of the marriage itself. It is a bond between two souls and not the body. You can share anything with ur wife. she is one who is going to be withyou till your death and also after ur death with ur kids. First u dont know what is life i think. Even i too thought the same earlier and avodied the marriage. But i realised. I think u r educated. U can many mingle and have connection with thousands of girls only when ur pocket is full of money which will also spoil ur name in the society and ur health as wellas ur wealth.
You can walk on the road with ur wife and ur kids. But u cant walk with those thousands.
If u dont want to get married, after some time you will be vexed. There will be no problems at all. You will feel lonely. nobody will be there with u when u r in trouble even to share ur feelings. you will get frustrated and you will ask why i have to live, why i have to earn, why i have to save?
Pls ask these questions urself. Atleast if u cant save the nation, get married and allow ur kid to help the nation. atleast allow ur child to move in the society at a very good position.
Pls go to the family councelling. They will help you to overcome.
2007-03-19 02:42:05 · answer #2 · answered by Raki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please please avoid marriage till u r sure about the reasons for getting married.
Otherwise u will only ruin ur 'future wife's life.
Donot destroy ur spouse's life because of ur thinking.
Or tell ur future wife what are ur thoughts and views , and then mutually decide if the two of u want to get married or not!
Marriage is not just about the physicalities.
When u love someone , meaning care about someone , that u want to spend 5-6 decades of ur life with them...........there is a lot more to marriage!
Dating maybe short lived though and u can have lots of dating partners .
But normally marriage is with one person!
And normally meant to last ur life! :-)
2007-03-15 08:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by mari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which world are you living!! You have lived a life without life in the past it seems. Believe in GOD and go ahead. You will get peace and stability. Don`t worry.
2007-03-19 05:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by thannickan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Africa and try a gorella.
take her to Amazon.
2007-03-15 07:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-15 08:00:12 · answer #6 · answered by kirti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋