What is the motivation behind it?
2007-03-14 22:57:22 · 9 answers · asked by smash wit love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree i believe in monogamous relationships. swinging is dirty and degrading. i have been in a relationship for 5 years and would never ever even consider that.
2007-03-14 23:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ah, so many answers based on insecurity, fear, and bias. But none on facts.
We've been in the lifestyle for years. I love what a sexual woman my wife is. I love her being her. She can be who she is without the kind of guilt that many here throw at other women for being hot and sexual.
Men want a hot sexual woman, but then when they get married she is expected to turn it off to make her husband comfortable so that he isn't jealous because of his own insecurities. The problem is that when she turns it off for everyone else, she turns it off for him, too. Then a few years down the road he's wondering where that hot, sexy woman who loved to have sex with him all the time went.
I've never asked my wife to turn it off. Where we are is because we love, respect, and trust each other implicitly. There is no question that we are "it" for each other. Why we are married to each other and not other people is very clearly defined in our relationship. We've had great sex with others before we got married and since we've been married, and we've had incredible sex with each other. But sex is only part of our relationship. It's not our whole relationship. The reason we are married is because of everything else about each other the other 23 hours a day we are not having sex. There are 3 billion people of the opposite sex in this world we could have great sex with. There is only one other person we can have everything else with.
This may seem a strange and foreign idea to some, but it's a clear as a bright sunny day to us. I know my wife loves me for me. And she knows I love her for her. Everything else is just icing on the cake.
2007-03-18 11:11:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you're the two preserve alongside with your marriage, swinging would properly be a healthful element for couples. it could help boost intercourse lives that are starting to be to be stale or lacking in some areas. although, in case you have any jealousy themes, leave them on the door. You the two ought to think of very heavily and communicate with reference to the way you experience approximately it. think of with reference to the way you may experience in case you observed your hubby having intercourse with somebody else. might it turn you on or make you jealous? this is something you ought to noticeably evaluate in the past leaping into the swinging scene. in any different case, it ought to become a serious difficulty on your marriage. some human beings evaluate it cheating. My husband and that i lay out floor regulations. there is no complete swap (in diverse rooms). we don't evaluate this cheating using fact we are the two latest and consenting. We evaluate cheating to be entering into the back of your important different's returned and mendacity.
2016-11-25 21:20:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with the same man for 26 years and have never cheated.
2007-03-14 23:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by starrynight1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Swining is an excuse of an irresponsible people to go have sex with others apart from their own partner. It is nonsense, dirty, and evil.
2007-03-14 23:02:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't believe people should go sleep with other people wether they are have a b/f or husband its just not right.
2007-03-14 22:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont, coz with these swinging relationships there's also swinging std's!!!
2007-03-14 23:00:57 · answer #7 · answered by SA Girl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sorry to but in ladies ? swinger is another name for whore.
2007-03-14 23:00:45 · answer #8 · answered by Bertie D 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
no thanks.....
2007-03-14 23:04:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋