what would you do if your first grader came home saying a student told him she was having safe sex
2007-03-14 22:40:34 · 12 answers · asked by super_ez1 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
I'd call the principal just to report it. It's something that may need to be checked into to. Maybe she's being molested. Or, maybe she is just watching too much TV and has seen it there. Either way it should be addressed. I've had to call the principal of my 3rd graders school about things he's come saying. A kid in his class talks about sex alot with alot of detail and has asked my son to tell a 4th grade girl he wanted to f*** her!! I called right away because I was very concerned. Not only because my son is being exposed to these things too early and at school but because this other child, a 9 yr old should not know so much about these things! I had the feeling something was going on at home with hm and it needed to be made aware of to the school so they could investigate. They have to, it's the law.
2007-03-15 03:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by Incognito 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the school and let the teacher know, or speak to the parents directly if you know them. It's the responsible thing to do when dealing with someone so young and there could be a possibility of molestation or sexual abuse. What first grader knows about "safe sex" without being told by someone older that could be taking advantage?
2007-03-15 05:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by Nickie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the parents of that student or arrange a conference with the teacher, school psychologist, principal, and the parents of that student. try to find out if that child has been touched inappropriately. its quite likely that that child is being sexually abused.
2007-03-15 05:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by waterlily750 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many of the above answers are good answers, but focus on your own kid first. Find out what they think that means, and if they're wrong, correct them. Talk to them about appropriate language at school, and what you think of what was said.
Then I'd involve the teacher/other parents.
2007-03-15 16:47:11 · answer #4 · answered by ~Biz~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask who the student was and talk to the teacher or the parent....... and let your child know that this is not appropriate conversation for school......especially at their age!
2007-03-15 05:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by Yummy Mummy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely find out who the child is and talk to there teacher and involve there parents as well.
2007-03-15 09:07:49 · answer #6 · answered by Proud_Mommy82708 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will explain to her that safe sex are for adults only,for ppl that are matured enough for responsibilities,its a precious gft from GOD that we will surely enjoy with mr right,
2007-03-18 12:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out who the child was and talk to their teacher about it.
2007-03-15 05:44:05 · answer #8 · answered by sharkgirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the child is too small for this so i would obviously find out his name and contact his teacher and parents and yeah i would also tell some of my closests friends about this
2007-03-15 05:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by pretty girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would talk to the teacher and the parent ASAP! that is not ok for such a young child.
would you want your child to be learning from this other child?
2007-03-15 05:44:39 · answer #10 · answered by impossiblemama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋