Like if she makes the first move and asks you out, does it make you respect her less, or do you like it? Please, if you dont mind giving me your age and ethnic background, I would like to find out if different ages and cultures have different opinions. Also, if she asks you out, do you expect her to pay, or would you want to pay?
Thanks guys!
2007-03-14 22:10:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I love a lady who knows her own mind and isn't afraid to take action. I certainly wouldn't see a lady in any lesser light if she was the first to make an approach, sometimes we men don't see what is right in front of our face until it is pointed out.
We are not all predatory and are sometimes too shy or reserved.
Who pays - I would usually expect to pay, but wouldn't mind sharing the costs if the lady really insisted.
Slim
(White, English, 40)
ps
Been out of the dating game and in a happy marriage for 18 years, so I might be a little out of date.
2007-03-14 22:20:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm a Mexican guy 27 y/o. I don't see anithing wrong with a girl asking out to a guy. I had a Mexican girl asking out once, we end up going out for 2 years, I respected her a lot because she was a wonderful women. We had to broke up due to my job. But my point is that I don't see anithing wrong w/it. I think that latinas now at days are becoming more open minded to this, latelly I have known a lot of people that end up going out becouse the girl made the first move.
JP
mexico...
2007-03-14 22:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by gasparin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right in different cultures and age group opinion would be different
but if you need advice tell us ur culture age and lcation so that we should advise accordingly
naturally you are not going to move out to a particular location culture to achieve what you desire
ppl do seek advice to have some moral support otherwise they have had made up their mind what to do
2007-03-14 22:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think guys like it too. It's quite flattering. We like the psychological tension, the suspense and the excitement as much as girls.
I'm Asian, but girls of all ethnicities and ages have been coming on to me my whole life.
I like it when a woman knows what she wants. I don't mind letting the women be the pursuer, while I become the pursuee. 90% of the girls I've dated were girls who were hitting on me.
I hope this answers your question.
2007-03-15 00:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would love it if a girl asked me out! there is nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy out. im so sick of being a hunter, fearing rejection. and yes being a nice guy ,i would appreciate it and value you more.
2007-03-14 22:15:17 · answer #5 · answered by sadighe f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its ok...
it depends on the personallity tho, guys arent all teh same
id like it
south african(white)17
moved to the uk a year ago
2007-03-14 22:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by ♪N♀.♫ReF∟eCt↨♀n§!▲!!☼™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like it if i like her. i dont want to see an ugly woman come to me and say i want to go out with you, but thats also charming. i will pay.
2007-03-14 22:18:40 · answer #7 · answered by histvel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on her approach, usually yes unless she just assumes she can grab at me or gets really rude or something.
-NmD!
2007-03-14 22:14:39 · answer #8 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like it,, and i will still pay if she asks to go out
2007-03-14 22:12:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't respect her less, I just feel flattered!
2007-03-15 07:56:16 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋