I really don't believe that's how can he really love me so much?!? He is very clever and handsome boy. He look always smile at me.. But I am just deaf girl. He said that he want to be my boyfriend. I'm surpise when he said like that. I think I don't know how to do what. But I know he love me so much. And I also love him. I must accpet him?
2007-03-14 22:05:08 · 23 answers · asked by Stupid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you wanna be with him do it.
what makes you think that just because you're different, you can't be together??
2007-03-14 22:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you question if he can love you because you are deaf? Being deaf isn't what defines your whole being right? You should stop concentrating so much on that! It's there and it isn't going away right? You don't need your ears to experience life..forget that you're deaf and think about what you can do! Every person in the world has something that they can't do.. you can't hear..that's a big one for sure, but you can overcome it by not letting it define your life. Every morning when you get up look in the mirror and remind yourself of what you CAN DO!! Don't let time pass by worrying about that which you cannot change, or you may miss out on alot of great things! LOVE DOESN'T NEED EARS!!! Chin up kiddo, if you love him, you've already accepted him..so grab it and run and enjoy every minute of it!!
2007-03-16 02:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember you are not a deaf girl. You are just a girl who unfortunately happens to be deaf. Your handicap should never come before you. Every individual is unique and lovable. You are very lucky to be loved and wanted by someone & your physical condition can never be the reason for not accepting his love. However, you should remember, life can become very demanding at timesand in such cases even this guy may seem to be insensitive. So be very careful, never make hasty decisions and dont always feel that he is doing a favor by being with you. Remember you are unique & there is just no one like you and that is why he loves you. Good Luck, friend and may you have a very happy life!
2007-03-15 05:21:45 · answer #3 · answered by amy 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, you do not HAVE to be his girlfriend. But iIf you both like each other then I say go for it. Deaf people are entitled to being in relationships full of genuine love, too!
He obviously does not mind that you are deaf and I think that that is fantastic. Give him a chance. He just might be your Mr. Right!
Congratulations and I wish you the very best!
2007-03-15 05:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"just a deaf girl" you can not be just a girl. He sees something in you to love! Why can't you see it too? By looking at all your question you seem like you don't love yourself for being who you are. There is nothing wrong with being deaf, embrace it. Ask him why he want to be your boyfriend you may be surprised at exactly how special you are!
2007-03-15 05:58:08 · answer #5 · answered by Annie: Mommy to Sid and Liz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all up to you. If you are comfortable with him at your side, Make you happy and put a smile on your face, why not? Give him a chance. But this is totally up to you. Though you are deaf, it is wonderful if this man can accept you as you are. That is true love I guess. So see what your heart says.
2007-03-15 05:09:04 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? There is nothing wrong with you except your deaf! I have a very very good friend who is deaf and he leads a very normal life, with people who can hear. He has a beautiful girlfriend and is very happy.
Just be careful as any girl should. You know what I mean.. :-)
You can write to me if you need any other advice! Good luck and open you heart, also your..eyes!! :-)
2007-03-15 05:09:52 · answer #7 · answered by Silvia N 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why not! You both care about each other a lot. You being deaf and him being normal shouldn't matter. As long as you can feel his love, that's all that matters :^)
2007-03-15 05:08:45 · answer #8 · answered by Joshu@ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, go for it. In this kind of situation, don't pre-judge. It'll only harm you. What makes you think that all boys are the same, and that they are only after the most perfect girls out there?
2007-03-15 05:11:25 · answer #9 · answered by Dowland 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's not something you must accept, if you like him and he likes you then why not. It obviously makes no difference to him that your deaf so why should it stop you??.
best of luck!
2007-03-15 05:10:56 · answer #10 · answered by Devilsadvocate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that sounds like a boy who cares about you for you. Loves you for who you are go for it. Just make him learn sign language
2007-03-15 05:08:07 · answer #11 · answered by ProudToBeWhite 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋