I totally love my boyfriend, whom I've been with with for over 2 and half years. The problem is, I like my coworker who also happens to be a good friend. A few months ago I was feeling like this but a friend made me realized that my boyfriend is the one who has my heart and I couldn't see myself without him. Now, for some reason I've been thinking about my coworker again and I can't figure out why. Is it just the excitement of something new? What do I do? Thanks.
2007-03-14 21:58:34 · 9 answers · asked by Wishing on a Dream 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Any girl likes to know that she is desirable to a man especially when she's off the market...it makes you feel like you still have it. And like someone said on here he might be giving you the attention you want your boyfriend to give you. Sometimes relationships grow stale even though you may love that person and your co-woker is bringing some zing! back in your life If this is true talk to your bf and let him know how you feel or try to bring the fire back on your own. There are many tips for that on the web. But what you need to ask yourself is do you want to risk your boyfreind for your co-woker? Is he worth it?
2007-03-14 22:13:14 · answer #1 · answered by latrece 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and like is two different thing, its very normal for a person to like or admire somebody because they has something that impresses us and the feeling will just go just like that but I you will say love it means that you are willing to commit your self with that person even it means forever... but in your case I can see that its more than just admiring the person, so you gotta have to be sure girl that it was just LIKE you know! You need to think of some situation like what if this coworker of your's will court you, are you going to say yes? well if your answer is yes my dear! you better break your relationship with your boyfriend right now because sad to say you are not yet deeply in love with your boyfriend. I am not questioning on how much you love your boyfriend but sometimes, we are just making our selve's believe that the person beside us is the one that we really love but the whole truth it's NOT because if you still see your self dreaming with another person it means that you are not yet decided with your partner.... SO YOU BETTER DECIDE NOW BEFORE ITS TOO LATE.
I just have a suggestion! why dont you try a cool off atleast you are going to have space to check on what really feel toward your boyfriend and in that case you will not be unfair with your boyfriend and to your self too.
GOODLUCK
2007-03-15 05:44:12 · answer #2 · answered by carry on 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your just lusting after him.
Why dont you ask your boyfriend for a threesome, this will make the work situation really awkward after wards and then you will not have to consider the coworker for a potential mate, however, if the threesome is good, then you can pick between the two.
2007-03-15 05:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you havent said your totally in love with your co worker stick with the man you love especially if you still cant see yourself without him. It comes down to who is more important to you???
2007-03-15 05:03:38 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberly S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Office romance should be avoided. Are you not satisfied with one man? Ask yourself this question. You have the answer in your heart.
2007-03-15 05:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to know what you want
can't have your cake and eat it too
Otherwise, someone is goint to get hurt...and you can easily end up with neither
2007-03-15 05:00:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your boyfriend you wanna make a 'Ménage à trois' with your coworker
2007-03-15 05:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is your co worker giving you the attention that you want from your bf????
2007-03-15 05:03:02 · answer #8 · answered by amanda luu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a three some.
2007-03-15 05:00:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋