My bf, after bring with me for 2 years, slept in every other hotel and now says he doesn't want to marry me, he never life my face, I am not beautiful. My breasts are not in size, he doesnt like sex, he needs fair girl, and also he said to take an effort to convince him for marriage as he is not getting the feelings. Lately I found he is talking to one more girl. Then once I told him that I am going to tell that girl, I guess he got scared and said he will never marry me, not to call him also. Its been a month, and he hasnt called me. Till that time also I didnt show my anger. He is still talking to the other girl. He wants to see me when we were together in webcam, even he might be doing this to her. He will talk dirty over phone. That girl doesnt know anything about me or our hysical relationship. Wsh she could read this. What should I do? I dont know still I am in love with him..most of the time I cry. I felt like he just used me nicely. Now another girl, 'P'..What should I do?
2007-03-14 21:48:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen...first of all, you ARE beautiful. All humans are beautiful. So never forget that, because if you have low self-worth you are never going to get past that. He sounds like a jerk. Saying things like I want to marry you, but sleeping in other hotels, seeing other women, (he probably told you about your breasts being smaller), he tells you you are just fair. What a jerk. There are MILLIONS of men that would sleep with you instead of him. And there are probably about 500 possible other candidates in the making. You need to dump him. He is making you cry and probably sleeping with other women. He doesn´t call you for a month and then wants to have phone sex. Oh no, to hell with that. You need to show yourself some more respect so you can kick his sceezy butt to the curb. Good luck. Trust me, there ARE men that treat women better out there. You just got a horrible example of one. And by the way, there are many men that LOVE smaller breasts. You just apparantly met Goofus, not Gallant. Love and Respect.
2007-03-14 21:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by nassim420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's so clear that u r just a sex machine for him. He's a cheater !
"Riding cow tracing horses", u got what it means? He is looking for his perfect partner, while 'on the way', he met u, although u r not the kind he like, but he will take a try. Now, he's bored with it, he wants to continue with his dream.
Dump him, go find a new one ! None of an ungly girl in this world but lazy girl ! U r still young aren't u ??
Don't waste ur time girl, life has too many things to experience ! U will find ur destiny one day !
aza aza fighthing !!
2007-03-14 21:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by PiGongMaMa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice for u is better u let that guy go.......he didnt love you,he juz used you...u can see it from wat he did to you....pleaze my dear,better u leave him.....i know u will suffer but as time keep running,u will forget him.....if u still waitin for him,it will bring nothing to you....he juz a playboy.....its hard to forget a person we love so much but if u marry him aso....u wont be happy.....wat u will do if he still having affair wit another gurl after u married wit him....that time u cant do anything,u will spoil ur life,so better u forget him n start a new life.....
2007-03-14 21:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he only used you for dirty phone sex, he is a player, move on-
2007-03-14 21:53:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he told you not to call and hasn't talked to you in a month. you're over....he has moved on, so get over it...he has.
2007-03-14 21:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋