hey there everyone!i have a boyfriend,but we dont usually keep in touch because we coupled trough msn messanger,we havent meet each other yet,there is another guy that i like,we both have so much in comment,and i like him so much and wanna couple with him,but what should i do with my boyfriend??help me please!
2007-03-14 21:44:25 · 19 answers · asked by Joanne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are young so I will tell you the truth. Neither of them are your bf. The first guy, you haven´t even met him yet. I know you could´ve connected really well and all that but he is not your bf. He is the guy that you were romantically talking with, that you have never met. Trust me, getting hurt over the internet is like the last way to get hurt. People usually get dumped in person, over the phone, letters, but over the internet, I don´t think it´s such a big thing. Just go for it with the new guy, take it slow, be careful, all assuming you are over 18 to release me from any liabilities for poor advice. Good luck.
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2007-03-14 21:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by nassim420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, it's an internet relationship? That's not even a real realtionship. Just date this new guy (you know him in person right??) Don't tell the internet guy if you're still getting entertainment or whatever out of it and this new guy (you know him in person right??) will probably just laugh at you if you tell him you have an MSN boyfriend, so don't tell him. If it gets serious, you can stop chatting to the MSN dork like your his girlfriend and just be his chat buddy.
2007-03-14 21:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh the joys of online dating lol
Well, this all comes down to your own priorities. You say your already this guys gf? Well, that does kind of mean you'd have to break up with him, do date this other guy...
but then, this is ONLINE DATING we're talking about... sorry, I really shouldn't laugh, but I've had my fair share of guys who wanted to be my bf from halfway across the country without really KNOWING me, you know?
Anyways, enough about me.
What you have to consider is that even though you can't really SEE this online bf you have, he may really have strong feelings for you, and does deserve to know if you have feelings for another guy. I know a lot of people who have married those they met online, so it really isn't that odd to find your "soul mate" via msn.
So I guess what I'm saying is, who do you see yourself with, truly? This other guy has the benefit of seeing you in person, but this online guy obviously was special enough for you want to be his gf even though you knew you wouldn't be able to see him anytime soon.
I can't honestly answer this for you, you'll be the one who has to make the ultimate choice.
Matters of the heart are tough. Sometimes there just isn't any right or wrong answers, just right and wrong actions... whoever you decide, just make sure you're being honest to everyone involved :)
Best of luck to you!
Anna :)
2007-03-14 21:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say to give yourself and your boyfriends a week to a month's time, see how much you like them and make a choice. Perhaps talking to your first boyfriend about it, but only after you made that choice.
But seriously, try not to be greedy.
Virtual relationships... are very vague and very unfulfilling in most cases, i do hope you have a proper and successful relationship in the future.
2007-03-14 21:49:57 · answer #4 · answered by TsukasaX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dump him.....its not that hard. you obviously like the other guy more. so why continue a relationship with your boyfriend if you have stronger feelings for the other guy? you should break up with him now, that way he wouldnt be wasting his time trying to woo you and you can be happy with your new man.....
2007-03-14 21:49:40 · answer #5 · answered by amanda luu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With my own adventure once you provide no reason in the back of somebody to have confidence your cheating on them yet they continuously accuse you of it, it does in lots of cases advise they are those with the to blame ethical experience. they think of issues like, properly if Im doing it she must be..... Ask him if he's and if he gets mad or laughs, those additionally are undesirable indications.... And have confidence me, i be attentive to what Im speaking approximately.
2016-11-25 21:18:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find someone that you know in person! It must get lonely never having met your boyfriend - don't you want someone to touch?
2007-03-14 21:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by Susan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a guy that you can hug and hold hands with. Don't you think it's time to end it with the online guy?
2007-03-14 21:48:17 · answer #8 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your not-seen-before boyfriend knows that you've now found yourself someone you like. He should give you his blessings for being so truthful!
2007-03-14 21:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you losing it girl
u dont have boyfriend,period!!!
so go for someone u actualy know physical,socialy and emotionaly,now thats a BOYFRIEND
not that cybernetic fiction thing u have
2007-03-14 21:56:58 · answer #10 · answered by broderm2k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋