What are the signs of a start of an affair.....when married/?

Question

Just wanted your thoughts about the signs of the start of an affair/fling. I'm married, but feel "funny" around a certain someone. Please help, tell me the signs to see if I have them.

Thanks

What if this person you are falling for, happens to be your work-mate, and you cannot avoid them??

Answer 1

If this is a person at work, you suddenly really enjoy going to work.
Going to work early or staying late is no problem if the phantasy gurl is going to be there.
You need a haircut, something a little more stylish.
You get mad at your wife, she has washed your shirt and left a stain on it.
You daydream about spending time with the phantasy gurl.
You look at your wife now using a comparison scale to phantasy gurl.
When you make love to your wife you spend part of the time pretending she is phantasy gurl.
You try different methods and positions you have never done with your wife because it is easier to pretend she is phantasy gurl.
You try to wrangle a way for the phantasy gurl to get your cell phone number and you hers.
If she is a co-worker you try to find ways for you two to spend more project time together.
You think of little details that are missing and must e-mail/inter-mail to get phantasy gurls help.
Phantasy gurl told you you were so smart and it made the hairs all over your body tingle...you want more.
You spend big blocks of time trying to figure out how you will approach phantasy gurl about that first out of office meeting you so despirately want.
(You are so enamoured with your thoughts of phantasy gurl you haven't noticed your wfe has noticed you seem to be out there in space and sometimes she thinks you are looking at her funny.)
You need new underwear...today.
You wash and wax inside and out of the vehicle you will use when you and phantasy gurl finally get away alone.
You spend more time in the garage so you can think about phantasy gurl without your wife asking you "what's up".
The dripping faucet in the shower doesn't really need fixing...you are going to be with phantasy gurl and it won't be in this house.
You found out where phantasy gurl lives and you drive by when ever you have the chance.
Your wife seems to be on your case all the time, she wants to know what's wrong...hell nothing is wrong....phantasy gurl is great...and wiffey pooh needs to get off your back.
Oh great...phantasy gurl is calling you on your cell. Damn you have to pretend it's not ringing or something...flustered, damn wiffey is right here.
You have got to get wiffey home and gone, gone quick and return this call...you're driving like you have a case of major road rage.
You get home and wiffey jumps out of the car glad to be alive...you get half way out and say damn, I forgot smokes, and get the car in fast reverse.
Your wife thinks WTF...we quit smoking three years ago.
You are an idiot...you just whipped out the yellow flag and you don't have a clue.

Next responder...

Answer 2

You need to look at the details. They will tend to make small changes to their routines. If you stop and think about these things, and you know them, you'll understand. I guess it's my line of work but I always take notice. My wife started talking to a guy at her work and they met a few times and were about to get sexual... we have a place in our bedroom that we always plug our phones in at night so they can charge. First she starts shutting her cell phone off, I questioned that and she said it won't get a good charge unless she does that. Then I notice that she started putting her cell phone on viberate instead of ring, she never has done this. So I decided to take a look and found several text messages that were very interesting. So take a look at the small things, going to the bathroom frequently also, she was calling or texting him in there. Calling her at work is another good way. I did that also, she said she was required to stay late one evening. I waited until after her shift was over and called. They said she was gone for the day.

Answer 3

we are all attracted to mutiple ppl. The begining sign would be if you were avoiding your wife to be around that woman. Or if you were thinking of that woman more than your wife. We all get tempted, avoid this woman if you really don't want to have an affair.

Answer 4

Everyone wants attention. When your not getting the attention you need at home, you start seeking it elsewhere.
go to your mate and communicate your needs. put your energy where you could get the results you want. having an affair is not your answer. it will only lead to heartbreak and disappointment and rejection. it's a short term fix but in the long run your heart will pay.

Answer 5

Want to go to bed with him. Keep thinking about him in most of your wake hours. Lost interest having sex with your husband. Come on, you're married. Drop all silly thoughts and return to your hubby's arms.

Answer 6

Uh, just don't cheat. Sure, you've got a little crush going on for some one else, it's normal. Just don't pursue that relationship. Self control. Get some!

Answer 7

If you feel "funny" around someone, you should try to keep your distance. Respect your marriage and stay far away from whoever is giving you those sex vibes.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

If u are wondering, that's pretty much the main sign.

Answer 10

feeling "funny" is nothing....the signs of an affair...you kiss them, you have sex with them.....pretty clear there....if you think it is going to lead to more, then avoid this person, or just back off them...