I find that masturabating is more enjoying for me. I find that watching a sexuall movie is much more sastifying for me as well. I have a very good sexuall partner but I just seem to be able to hit the spot better my self. Is this bad. Or what might I do. I am not a child a mature women.
2007-03-14 19:35:33 · 9 answers · asked by babycakes3557 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U not alone, some women just finds that oral sex, or mastubation is just more satisfying.
Not all men knows how to hit that spot!! if u get what I'm saying...
but u can always teach him, or while u having sex, u play with ur clit ur self, then tell him to do it.
also jump him while u whatching porn (watch it with him), keep it playing (it will turn u on ova &ova again) &...u have the real thing to work with...-LOL better fun..
also, masturabate infront of him....that could be hot for u, &aching pleasure for him.....lol...enjoy.
2007-03-14 19:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it dosen't matter if you're a guy or a girl, young or old, self gratification is better than sex is because you do not have the pressure to satisfy the'other ' person, when you tell your partner what makes you tick, chances are that he/she will always does the same thing again & again, after awhile it beame a routine predictable & boring, your partner does not want to change the routine because he might fear that you may not like it, and that he's 'loosing it' as you mature, you expect more
2007-03-14 19:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by Dreamweaver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My hubby and I have been married for 25 years.
Our sex life has had its ups and downs thru out the years.
But we gernerally have a good time sex wise.
I found bringing toys in the bed room helped in our down times.
It is a real turn on for him and less work when I am having trouble getting there. Plus they can be used on him as well.
Which is a big turn on for me and for him.
I found it is mind set too. Once you masterbate for so long.
Its harder for a guy to achieve the same response you get when doing it to yourself. Let him in on that part too.
2007-03-14 19:46:40 · answer #3 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This isn't unusual at all. But we can't expect them to read our minds. It's really important to comunicate with your partner about what you want and how to do it.
2007-03-14 19:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by Teresa t 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are creature that are very eager to please. He'll do anything u tell him to if its going to make you moan. Let him watch you pleasure yourself, a lot of guys love that.
hope this helps.
2007-03-14 19:55:50 · answer #5 · answered by Lacey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
masturbation is not bad especially if you can do it better than your partner. ;)
give your partner tips on what to do or help him do it.
2007-03-14 19:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by lady_luv 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
masturbating is such a funny word... =} laugh with me! hahahaha! nothing personal babe... just kidding! hehe!!
2007-03-14 20:23:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I enjoy masturbation also.Its pleasure for me.I prefer it more that sex.
2007-03-14 19:41:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
guide your partner in bed. tell him what you like and he will do it for ever. im sure all he wants to do is please you.
2007-03-14 19:39:17 · answer #9 · answered by banjotrinket 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋