After 3 months that i left from my country friend send me message that she fall in love with my bf then after 4 days she told me that she and my bf are already lovers.then i ask my bf at first he denied but later he said thats true but according to him he is not serious with that girl becauce the girl is near with any boys or i can say she's a flirty type of girl and the girl knows from the beginning that i am the gf of that boy.Right after i know i end up my commitment with the boy and then next day their relationship also finished it was the boy who end up the relationship with that girl.The boy was eager to get me again and also the girl ask me forgiveness and another chance for the boy because she told me that the boy loves me not her although i convince myself to believe what she said i still can't because im far from them they're in asia and im here in middle east but i forgive them already for what they have done to me.By the way he's my first bf at age 23and we're on for 1 year
2007-03-14 19:30:00 · 8 answers · asked by cheezzee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Easy solution.. i know you still love that boy, but, it still hurts you inside, right? there's one word for that,.. one simple answer.. it starts with an 'N' and end with an 'O'.. NO!!!.. it's hard to forget him this time, but, trust me..you'll find better guys.. forget about this guy.. he's just messing with your life..
2007-03-14 19:40:38 · answer #1 · answered by Honey Gee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wld say that u have to move on and forget him.Long distance love affair seldom works.He has given you too much pain by having a relationship with your friend.They may say that they are sorry for wat they have done and that they broke up already but who knows?!?!You cant be sure if they are telling the truth or still lying coz u cant see them anyway.
I think your beautiful enough to find another man who will rock ur world.Loving a guy who is far from u and is capable of lying wont be worth of ur time.
There are a lot more fishes in the sea.You still have a lot of time to choose the best one. Goodluck!!!
2007-03-14 20:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up cheezball they both screwed you over .
forgiving them that's fine but to hell with that crap .they screwed you once the will screw you again .the only difference is next time it wont take them 4 days to do it .
2007-03-14 19:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by hounddog111061 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he betrayed your trust once there no guarantee he won't do it again so don't give him the chance, and it doesn't matter if he's your first boyfriend put yourself out there and other guys will come. don't give him a second chance.
2007-03-14 19:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by Syd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geesh
If you live so far away.........he isn't your bf.
This is an internet crap.
Please Please find a local guy. This long distance thing isn't gonna happen.
It does work, but one person needs to move
2007-03-14 19:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO........................?
Was he honest with u...........?
When he was started affair with ur friend, was he think of u?
my suggestion is strictly NO
2007-03-14 19:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by meet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you do not!
2007-03-14 19:33:22 · answer #7 · answered by Bernice J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!
2007-03-14 19:32:18 · answer #8 · answered by Jamal J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋