There is a girl in my Anatomy class that I have had my eye on for a long time. I find her extrememly atracitive.
The simple fact though is that I have never talked to this girl once. I dont know if i am afraid or what.
I need some advice on how to approach her...even if its just to say hi, or sumthing.
2007-03-14 19:25:56 · 11 answers · asked by jdog7_29 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trying to find exactly what she is interested in, studying it, and just striking up a conversation with her about it is much easier said than done.
i would say whenever she makes a joke, laugh, and make a counter-joke or make a remark about it.
compliment her.
whenever she drops something, say "nice job" or "smooth" in a teasing way, but with a smile so she knows that you're just joking around.
be funny, make her smile, make her laugh.
i would say start first with small, quick remarks.
"hey, that was a nice speech you just presented in front of the class."
or questions, but questions about school and the class not about her life.
do NOT go "hey do you have a bf?"
go "hey, do you know how to solve this problem?"
or "man, this is so confusing, do you get any of this?"
and if you get lucky, she may know the answer, help you with it, and explain some things.
once you establish a conversation, or even a small "hey, how's it going?" you become a friend or an acquaintance, not just another stranger student in her class.
also, she's just another girl among the billions in the world.
she's not super special or anything. you might think she is, but that's just you. so treat her like you would another girl.
good luck
2007-03-14 19:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by briank1458 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This advice is from a former "player": First, be yourself!!! If you want to be happy in life, don't EVER be something you're not just make yourself attractive to another. He/she will always be expecting to see this "mask" you've been wearing every time you're together. Second, don't be afraid of a loss. If you blow it, if they don't "take the bait", if they find you repulsive, it's for good reason because it wasn't meant to be. But don't worry. There will be others. There always are.
Now about the girl... Art reflects life. Hollywood makes romantic comedies. Why? That's what women like, and usually in that order. What gets their attention and draws them in is the humor. What keeps their attention is the prospect of romance and commitment. Is this what you want also? Are you ready for commitment? I'm guessing your age to be 17-22.
You've already answered your own question on how to approach her. SAY SOMETHING!!! You must place yourself in a position to interact with her. Find some dumb reason to ask her a question, then finish it with a punch line. Do you have a sense of humor?
Consider this: We are drawn to love & friendships by the sharing of emotions & experiences. When we open up our emotions and weaknesses to others, we are trusting them. And they, in turn, trust us. This is especially important to women.
In summary, jump in! Obviously she hasn't noticed you, so you have to put yourself out there for her to see. Be your funny, little self. But don't fake it. You'll be sorry. Good luck. M-
2007-03-14 20:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by Marko Polo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what ever you do do not say "sumthing". Start with some small talk. Most women do not like to be rushed. Say hi or something like that. Just start, she probably gets hit on all the time. So be creative and do not be to brash and fast.
2007-03-14 19:29:05 · answer #3 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
build up to it, when you guys walk pass eachother say hey and smile (the aim is to get her to notice you as the guy who says hi to her all the time), then when you find something that you can talk to her about (e.g Anatomy) talk to her! or just ask her if she wants to hang out sometime.
2007-03-14 19:36:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Place your Anatomy in front of her and say hi
2007-03-14 19:35:22 · answer #5 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile and jokes would get her attention. attractive girls get used to have a ton of guys boring pickup lines. Be confident and nice and funny with smile.
2007-03-14 19:33:56 · answer #6 · answered by hippieflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be good manners n politely approaching her with ur smiling face n ask"may i have the chance chatting with u ?"if she is interested she w'd smile u back n reply "yes".then u got the chance to go in further.good luck.
2007-03-14 19:35:59 · answer #7 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her in a mener that u r only class mates and going to good friends in future. and talk to her when u all are in group. don,t hert her never
2007-03-14 19:36:16 · answer #8 · answered by ton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually the best way to talk is to use your mouth to make words come out.
2007-03-14 19:34:43 · answer #9 · answered by loza500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think of her as any other girl...that will take the stress off
2007-03-14 19:29:35 · answer #10 · answered by aishah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋