why do guys always have to talk about you know what in every conversation? why is this always a topic?

Question

it seems like everywhere i go and everything i hear when it comes to a man they seem to always feel the need to talk about their thing . jokes they crack at work, most guys i meet eventually bring this subject up. things i see on tv. sooner or later before any conversatio is over they feel the need to bring up again about their thing. i cant write exactly what i want to say cuz yahoo wil erase it. do men really think that women are always interested in this. its a pain. its irritating. then when they are not talking about that , they then start talking about kissing, and then if i say my back hurt, which it really does, guys automatically volunteer the massage. a real man wouldnt make a statemen like that. they would say have you gone to see a doctor, or how bad is your back. what is wrong with guys these days? who cares about their thing. they are the only ones crazy and absessed over it. so i wish they would stop. there are women out there who want a normal conversation. ty.

Answer 1

Some guys are immature and feel the need to talk about that subject constantly. When a guy grows up and becomes a little more mature (which ever comes first) then he will slowly stop talking about it. You have to get used to it for the time being or at least try to talk to them about it? Some guys are so into talking about it that they don't even realize what they are talking about. It becomes a daily routine. If it bothers you that bad, say something to them. It doesn't hurt to say anything.

Answer 2

men are men

women are women

we have no idea how to understand each other. I urge you not to try either because you'll continually find your self back in the same place. Men believe in speaking their mind no matter how sick and twisted it may get. Some times that involves saying some explicatives that can really be somewhat disturbing. Just as you argue that men can talk about their thing, Men can also list a TON of things women talk about that they just dont understand. Were engineered differently reguardless of being the same speicies. Youre at freedom to voice your opinion and tell them to keep that talk to a minimum but men, will be men.

As for the massage thing. Men generally are helpful for a woman any way they can because its all about chivalry. (Being at your service when ever youre at need.) Sure men may have hidden intentions. Last I checked we think about sex in outrageous rates so attraction will always factor in when we want to be at your service for a massage. You need to to just brush it off or at least use it to your advantage. If you can make a man in to a sucker for a couple of minutes, the guy has no one to blame but him self.

There are men out there that fit your criteria but either youre looking in the wrong places or your just expecting way too much out of us.

Answer 3

It is a lack of linguistic capability. Our society does not stress the linguistic skills of our male demographic. The job of the male in our society is to be the work horse. Thus it is not important to provide them with a brain, and they do the best they can with what they have. They well be perfectly sweet guys when you get to know them (usually) but in a social context it is not socially accepteble to show a more enlightened side of the male persona. There is much more to being a man then what popular culture shows them. It is a product of pop culture that is led to such a degridation in my view of the mail capablity, but you should know that they are still have all the aspects that make them men (just in a less admirable light). Now what did you want to talk about? Oh yes now back to my thing. I didn't want to dissapoint your view.

Answer 4

what are you talking about...I don't think any of that question made sense.

"and then if i say my back hurt, which it really does, guys automatically volunteer the massage. a real man wouldnt make a statemen like that. they would say have you gone to see a doctor, or how bad is your back. what is wrong with guys these days?"

That totally lost me.

Answer 5

Who are you trying to fool? Yourself? A bit of denial perhaps? The only reason that it even comes close to appearing as though the men in your life are talking about their genitalia or their libido or whatever, is because of your higher-than-average excitement and propensity toward eliciting such topics in your conversations with them.

Real men do exactly what you describe: they do as much as they can, even though it may be subconsciously, to procreate, or at least take as many steps toward procreation as possible.

It's those of us who no longer fit the mold of what it is to be a real man who have learneed to make statements like seeing a doctor or ask questions instead of playing doctor ourselves.

Obviously, among those who care about our thing, you are to be included. If you didn't care, you wouldn't have posed the question.

Answer 6

with guys like that their lives are so boring or there is not that much to them so thats all they talk about to sound interesting. like a football player, the title may be the only thing about that person and if they werent that they would be nothing else.

Answer 7

What's a normal conversation? what makes your topic of interest normal? really i would like to know why you feel you have decided for others what is normal and acceptable. i find that men talk about sports a lot, they love there toys and hobbies so I really don't find what you say to be true.

Answer 8

What are they talking about? The NCAA Basketball tournament?

Answer 9

The ones who do this only want to get into your pants.
-NmD!

Answer 10

those guys are losers