I really want to serve god but i'm caught up in drinking..I smoke sometimes, Help me figure out what I gotta do...Me and my babys mama are not together and I really want to be with her...
2007-03-14 19:14:26 · 8 answers · asked by Robines 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
God takes everyone, all you have to do is accept Christ as your Savior. Then the Lord shall show you the way.
2007-03-14 19:17:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't stop drinking go to AA and get help. And if you really want to be with your "baby's mama" stop calling her that, try the mother of my child and then try to talk with her. Be nice and act slow, it sounds like you messed it up some how so you need to do everything you can to make her believe that you are willing to do your best. If you are not willing to give it your all then give her child support and nothing else, she has a hard job and doesn't need to to complicate it.
2007-03-15 02:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to try to clean yourself up quitting smoking and drinking to come to God. He is right there for you even now. Just start pouring your heart out to Him. He is listening. He is waiting for you with a warm embrace, and He will set you free from the addictions, just ask Him. He loves you like a son. His heart is for you and He will help you.
2007-03-15 04:08:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray and ask God to take these things from you and to remove the desire to drink and smoke. Also pray that God will allow you to be what you need to be in her and your child's life. Ask her to give you another chance and be willing to make yourself a better person and change whatever caused you two to seperate.
2007-03-15 03:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by So_many_questions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be good for you to surround yourself with the Lord, and his servants here on Earth.....Christians. Pray about it, as he will help you, and ask him to help you get the temptations out of your life. Remember not to be discouraged if you slip up, as Christ has infinate patience, and forgiveness. He will help you, Im sure of it. And I will pray for you, too. Good Luck! I think it is wonderful you are doing this for yourself and your baby. Read Phillippians 4:13 " I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me" That always helps me when I am going through a tribulation that I dont think I can overcome. Good Luck!
2007-03-15 02:23:02 · answer #5 · answered by mayasmama2707 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you need to make some major sacrifices you have a lot of maturing to do. You need to change as of now you are a dad your baby is here your responsibility starts now so you need to start acting like one. And be there for her go to appointments ask how shes feeling if theres anything you can do to help her and your baby.....
2007-03-15 02:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by Natalie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.alcoholics-anonymous.org/?Media=PlayFlash
http://www.na.org/
try those two sites...if you have a desire to change then God can help you. You just have to let him. Good luck to you friend.
2007-03-15 02:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by angie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to quit everything to be with her and you think that she is worth it than you better go for it before you are to late she wont wait forever
2007-03-15 02:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by alisha l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋