Me and this girl had a short fling a while back. Looking back, I think I was attracted to her because i was looking for a fall-back from a previous fling.
Anyways...the relationship imidiatly went sour after she found out that I was still attracted to the last girl.
Then to make matters worse, she did some things she should not have done and I said sum things I should not have said and it was over almost before it began.
The worst part about all this is that I still see her occasionally at school (we go to the same college-imagine that) and I walk the other way or act like I'm doing something else. Is this wrong to ignore her after such a bad fallout?
2007-03-14 18:32:34 · 14 answers · asked by jdog7_29 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A simple hi would be ok,but there's not reason to stop and chit chat,but I still wouldn't be rude either,just say hi but keep walking as you do so!!
2007-03-14 18:36:07 · answer #1 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you both were volatile to one another its to be expected I suppose. I ran into my last girlfriend yesterday at the park and I turned and went the other way, mainly because she doesn't seem to want to see or talk to me. I did it in an attempt to make her more comfortable. We never fought or anything really but her family didn't approve of me. Makes it complicated in a small town. You should at least be cordial and say hello to one another in passing if possible.
-NmD!
2007-03-15 01:42:23 · answer #2 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time to heal however long its been make her be the one to walk the other way or something like that and if she doesnt walk away then you need to talk to her and make sure everything is ok between ya'll it's bad for your ,whatever its called , when you leave something like that and try to forget what happened it happened yah kno
well say sorry and then if she doesnt say sorry then give her time to think about and then she'll finaly come around if she doesnt well then at least its not on your conshance
2007-03-15 01:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care about her and have feelings for her or need to apologize...... dont ignore her..it is always best to do the right thing even if she yells at u and calls u names.. You have to do what you have to do..and do it in a real way....from the heart. Otherwise if you dont care just leave the girl alone
2007-03-15 01:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by amor_dove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think pretending to not know each other is very immature. Get over it and just say Hi with a smile. If she ignores you, then she's the one who needs to grow up.
2007-03-15 01:59:34 · answer #5 · answered by C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was a short fling as you say then, it is definetly not wrong to ignore her. Just go on.
2007-03-15 01:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong just dont act childish. be a man and just act like nothing happened so that way you wont feel awkward if she sees you say hello. dont let this make you uncomfortable. dont go after her to talk just dont try to play it off like you dont see her.
2007-03-15 01:37:48 · answer #7 · answered by gansito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she is an ex for a reason and it is up to you who you talk to etc.
Stop stressing the small stuff
2007-03-15 01:36:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u really don't have to ignore her completely, lil Hi won't hurt for the good times SEC
2007-03-15 01:39:57 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would ignore her too. It's not like there's anything good you two could talk about.
2007-03-15 01:36:26 · answer #10 · answered by Lili 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋