I am soo depressed...?

Question

I am serously soo sad I have been hurt by alot of guys like they cheated on me and I am soo sad I feel worthless and I have started cutting myself and slitting my wrists what can I do to cheer up or moove on help me!? :(

Answer 1

well i have never done the whole cutting the wrists thing, but i think its really serious. a lot of my friends do it and i dont understand it at all. i mean i dont think ur freaks or anything like that, i just dont understand what pain you could be going through. i just havent experienced anything that severe.
the whole boys cheating on you will happen no matter what. u just really have to move on. u have to realize that its best you found out. u would rather find out then be totally happy with him and him be cheating on u.i dont kno if that made sense at all but hopefully u know what i mean.
i would rather be unhappy and eventually move on from finding out my boyfriend cheated on me.
another thing you have to understand is that there IS someone out there for u. someone who will realize u are a star and there is only one of u. someone who would never jepardize being without u. and it just takes all these mess ups to finally stubble upon that guy. and u will find him when ur not looking.
so advice i would give u is
dont think about boys, men, males nothing.
think about school, music, any positive things in ur life. religion, family. AND PUT THOSE RAZORS AWAY!!
just stay positive and focus on making yourself the best it can be. i'll tell u the truth, no guy is gonna want to be with, go out with a suicidal girl. he will think its WAY too much to keep up with.
well i hope i helped u
and i didnt mean to sound at all harsh or like your stupid. u are not at all. i definitely am going through hard times myself with men. and other things in my life. i give u mad props for being able to come out in the open and ask for help here

Answer 2

:(I feel so bad for you! I used to get really depressed about my guy problems too. Then I just stopped caring. And started taking care of myself and concentrating more on me. Friends are a great band-aid for depression. In your case, if you are physically hurting yourself, you may want to seek professional help. I can understand where your coming from. With each relationship failure I went through, I'd want to die. But I never actually hurt myself. I felt more like hurting the guy that made me feel so awful. Time is a great healer, honey! All these experience are gonna make you stronger. Hang in there....And don't cut yourself!

Answer 3

You should be angry with these cheaters. See yourself as someone who deserve better. Forget about these losers. They are not worth dying for. Move on. Be smart and find a guy who loves you more than you love him. One day, you will find this person and he will be faithful to you and treasure you. For now... it will hurt but time will heal. Share your troubles with a good girlfriend who can support and comfort you. Also, in the meantime, go out with friends and have fun; give your energy to work or school. Lastly, remember this... when you have a boyfriend, dont cut off your friends. It is vital to keep your circle of friends and they will be there when you need them most.

Answer 4

Try to find another outlet for your emotions that don't have to do with hurting yourself. The guys if you know in your heart you were a good girlfriend and they did you wrong. Forget them they were a bunch of players they're losers not worth thinking about. Seek things that make you feel better as to not having a good boyfriend that truly cares for you don't worry about that. That will come with time. If these bad thoughts and feelings continue tell someone you know you can trust. I would also advise you to seek professional help.

Answer 5

First, deal with the fact that if they cheated and kept trying to be with you...

...they obviously thought you of enough worth to want to keep you too.

Second, remind yourself you're not done yet.

You have quite a long time to find someone to be with, or more than one someones to be with. At least if you don't kill yourself.

Third, you have to realize that your value does not depend on what boy/man you're with or has you. You're not a commodity for men, you're a woman of your own. You have a value and worth based on what YOU do and who YOU are.

Finally, if none of that helps, make a bargain with yourself. Tell yourself that you will simply not do anything self destructive until you get a college degree or you live 4 more years.

My bet is that 4 years of life or a degree will change your perspective enough to understand your own worth a little better.

Answer 6

Stop feeling sorry for yourself! All those guys were wrong, you can't help the fact that they're wrong! You hurt yourself because you shame yourself that you did something wrong. Those guy are not superior than you are. If you want a decent guy to like you you need to gain some self respect, as in stop cutting yourself. Why don't you talk to people other than the guys you're interested in.

Answer 7

You need to tell someone how you feel and seek counseling immediately! You don't need cheering up, but professional help. Cutting yourself is a serious.

I'm not sure how old you are, but if a teenager, talk to your parents or school counselor at once! If an adult, call your doctor ASAP in the morning.

Good luck.

Answer 8

Please get some help from a counsler or psychologist. This is a very serious thing. They are the best people to handle things of this nature. There are also hotlines that one can call to get help. They would be able to direct you in the right direction.
Please remember that noone is worth hurting yourself over. I am sure you are worthy of being in a real relationship with someone that would not cheat on you.

Answer 9

Look sweetheart. Like a friend of mine says, men are another example of **** lol. Don't even take them serioulsy, if they cheated on you, too bad too sad their lost. We all are special in some way, and if they can't see how special you are enough to respect you and be loyal, then they are not worth you being deppressed. Don't cut yourself, because one day that special guy who will see how special you are enough to respect you and be loyal won't like to see any scars on your pretty wrists, now will he? ;) exactly.

Just be happy and live life, sooner or later that person you are looking for will come.

Answer 10

You need a man like me.I would teach you how to love yourself.You need a man who makes you laugh and makes you feel like the most beautiful Goddess in the world.When you're happy you don't have the time to be depressed.If noone has told you they love you today then let me be the first.

I LOVE YOU!