I am somewhat juvenile at relationships seeing as I am only 17 and I have gotten myself into somewhat of a nasty situation. I dated a girl I have known since I was in preschool we will call her K. I dated her for 9 months a year and a half ago and we broke up because we are both planning to save our virginity for marriage and the relationship was just going too fast. So we broke up on good terms and we have talked every day since we broke up.
The first girl I dated after her was somewhat crazy and I ended up realizing i still liked K and broke it off. After the second girl i waited a year and started dating another girl, I will call her C. C and I have been dating for about a month now and she is a good girl when she is sober and she has remained sober for the first month of our relationship. Yet, yesterday she got drunk and K called me while she was next to me. C freaked out and admitted that she thinks I still love K. C got drunk yet again tonight and ranted on the same topic.
2007-03-14 18:28:55 · 6 answers · asked by llllllllll 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
More details. C is a wild child who likes to drink a lot and used to be into hard drugs. When she gets drunk she only talks to me about how bad a girlfriend she is and how she will never get drunk again... Then she tries to make out with me and more. She is somewhat right in that i still like K but i realize that i need to get over her or do something. The problem is, K is in a long relationship and though we talk... We haven't talked about still liking each other for about 6 months.
2007-03-14 18:31:07 · update #1
More details. C is a wild child who likes to drink a lot and used to be into hard drugs. When she gets drunk she only talks to me about how bad a girlfriend she is and how she will never get drunk again... Then she tries to make out with me and more. She is somewhat right in that i still like K but i realize that i need to get over her or do something. The problem is, K is in a long relationship and though we talk... We haven't talked about still liking each other for about 6 months. Any ideas on what to do?
2007-03-14 18:31:22 · update #2
hey boo can you email me I just wanted to talk to ya more, you seem insightful... my email is lgd08@yahoo.com
2007-03-14 18:52:18 · update #3
C is feeling insecure, because she doesn't like herself very much so she is looking for you to validate her. She needs an adult to help her work out some personal issues (counseling?). You might find C fun and exciting just because she is a wild child (your words). Don't take advantage of that because it will cause you both more problems than you need.
As for K. You do still like her. Maybe she is with this long-term relationship while she waits to see what is going to happen with you, after all, you are with someone so why should she put all of her hopes on you?
If you are mature enough, you should stop dating for about 6 months and see what happens with K during that time. If she also stops dating (or breaks up with her current guy), then you have cleared your life from any girl clutter that might cause you or K any problems in the future.
Good luck, I hope you make some wise choices here.
2007-03-14 18:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by minimickimichelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even if you never get back with K, you need to tell C that she has a drinking problem. Just tell K that you still think about her and wonder if you all would ever get back together. See what she says. If she is happy with the guy she's with, let her be with him in peace. If it's meant to be (virginity in tact or not), you all will be together. Good Luck!
P.S I wouldn't trust C. She seems very unstable, wishy washy.
2007-03-15 01:37:35 · answer #2 · answered by FemFatale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well break up with C because you seem smart and she is only trouble. You plan to stay a Virgin till marriage but it doesn't even seem like C is a Virgin, and that just means temptation. About K however...I wish you luck at getting her back. It is hard to get over a girl you break up with on good terms.
2007-03-15 01:37:16 · answer #3 · answered by Back 4 Revenge 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm ,. . .
brake it off with the C girl and K i dont know about her but i dont think you should be with C ok?
to get over someone is not to go with someone else but to get away from the person you still have feelings for it sound as if your trying to get over K by going with C
so just stop it with C before you really brake her heart
2007-03-15 01:35:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go back to K! You'll do a little humpty. You'll be happy!
2007-03-15 01:33:28 · answer #5 · answered by djcapron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get K back thats where your heart is...............
2007-03-15 01:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by James k 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋