feeling. I can't share my pain and sorrow with anybody else.
2007-03-14 18:21:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would love to have a grandchild like you. I know you are a lot like her in many ways. because you were so close to her. she would not want you to be in this pain. This I can promise you .. in time you will be able to handle the sorrow. this period of grief that you are going threw will pass and things will get easier. god bless you a good grandchild
2007-03-15 05:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by pheebe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very sorry for your loss. And it sounds like you were pretty close to her weren't you? So the pain is pretty intense and I understand that but I am not sure why you can't share your pain with anyone else. Have you no support system? You know sharing your pain with someone else in your family might be wise and beneficial. Remember you grand ma was also someones mother so I have a feeling the pain you are feeling you have in common with either your mom or dad because they just lost their mom. I know this sounds crazy but I have a feeling that if you were to try and be a source of comfort for your mom or dad then it would also help you with your grief. Its weird how it works but when we need something, often times the best way to get what we need is to give something to someone first, so maybe if you give of yourself to someone else in the family thats also grieving then maybe you will find you will get the very support you need to help begin to heal your sorrow and loss.
I wish you well
2007-03-15 01:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by chcman74 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry, I know what your going through, But death is the cycle of life. Everyone is going to die, I know this is rough on you and honestly you may even need some counseling to help get through it, Im not going to say get over it because when we love someone and lose them we never get over it, you just learn to deal with it, and it will take some time but your pain will fade a little more each year. Your probably bottling up everything inside, and you probably feel you need to be strong but you know what we ALL CRY.. it doesnt make you less of a person to show your feelings or to talk to someone in reguards to the way your feeling. Please talk to someone Mom Dad a counselor at school or a trusted friend.. Believe me when I tell you things will get better.. Take Care, I hope this helps..
2007-03-15 01:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by Dana D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal the way your feeling. In time you will be able to share with someone. I know your grandmother was lucky to have you and she knew she was loved by you. I know that just reading your question. If I know that and don't even know you, then I know you grand mom knew. She was blessed to have you.
I would love to have a grandson just like you.
She will live on forever because you will always have the memories. She is not gone she's just away.
2007-03-15 01:31:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is life honey. There is life and there is death, we must learn to accept it. One day, we too will have to go and this life is only a journey. Try to take it easy and positive about it. If you try to get out and meet new people, you'd probably realise that life isn't so bad at all. We all have our problems but we just don't talk about it. Just learn to live your life as your grand mom would want you to live. She is in heaven, looking at you. Oh yes, her spirit lives on in you and your family. So take care.
2007-03-15 01:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand how you feel i lost my mom and in time you will be able to cope with it a little better.i still feel like i cant talk to nobody about the pain but in time the pain will go away but not 100 percent but you will feel better knowing she is in a better place now.
2007-03-15 01:45:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about your grandma...What are these strange feeling you have????
2007-03-15 01:44:47 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋