Depressed Single gal?

Question

I have to admit I do not know what is wrong with me like I don't know in the past year I went out with 4 guys and everyone of them cheated on me and I don't know its been a while and I still can't stop thinking about everything thats happened to me with each guy and I particularly miss my most recent guy and I just want to be single but I miss him and I am always so depressed and recently I started cutting myself again to release a little pain I don't know what to do anymore what can cure this pain any suggestions or help?? Help me im hurting bad this shits gettin to me!!

Answer 1

You absolutely have to see a psychiatrist because you are exhibiting the classic signs of a bipolar condition along with clinical depression -- both of which are treatable by medication.

Don't get the idea that psychiatrists only work with "crazy people." That is totally false. They do a lot of work with people who have a chemical imbalance that affects their moods and behaviors. The reason why you need one is because the problems you have, in addition to being chemical in nature, also have a psychological component, such as addressing the need to cut yourself.

These conditions are very common among young people, especially girls, and it is not your fault that you feel and act this way. Again, I have seen many bipolar individuals who, with the help of prescribed medication, go on to lead very normal lives.

Talk with your family doctor or gynecologist. Ask them for a referral to a psychiatrist. If you are afraid to do it, then maybe you can ask your mother or father to do it for you. I know that they care about you, and I also know that you do not want them to know what is going on inside you. But, they see that you are slipping away from them and they will do anything to help you get out of your depression.

You cannot deal with it by yourself or with online advice -- it has to be a medical doctor with counseling experience...namely, a psychiatrist. If you and your family cannot afford to pay one, then you can get help through your local Department of Health.

Answer 2

Your hating yourself. Simply put. We pay a price for not loving ourselves, not being true, and not following our needs. I havn't heard a thing about any best-friends, not good you need them in times like this. Second most relationships that end in cheating show one important thing, a lack of love or acceptance of love amoung the individuals. I'm not saying you were the one who wasn't in love, nor can I say weather they were or not ether. But I can say that those cheating weren't accepting it enough to realize how intense of an experience it is with you. Could of been because the emotional ties weren't strong enough or they weren't strong enough. Need more information about that. But the underlining fix to your problem is that you need some one to talk to. Some one to confine in and release some of that tension with. But without any good relationships in ones life thats usually the path they go down. Stop hating yourself and give yourself some good quality relationships. Make some friends for awhile and stay away from making any lovers. Let your relationship grow that way don't force them down that path.