ok i talk to this girl in class she is funny and cool, but i found out she has a boyfriend at another school she doesnt talk much about him and im her friend, i really like her. On valentines day i gave her a carnation with a note says shes the beautiful girl and to have a lovely day, she blushed and started talking to me more from that day. now i dont know what to do i think and find myself she has a boyfriend and because of that i dont feel like talking to her sometimes. any advice?
2007-03-14 18:11:53 · 11 answers · asked by little q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've done this before. Stealing the girl from the boyfriend. Guess what happened. She turned out to be the sort of person who would cheat on her boyfriend if a better offer (on face value) came along. As a result I was always a bit paranoid about her being with others. Eventually dumped her for other reasons.
I think that if she didn't like her boyfriend in some way, she would not be with him. Additionally, people need space between relationships or their relationships get more and more screwed up because they haven't been given the time to get over the previous one.
So sorry dude, it's not a good idea for you two to get together, but it does sound like you guys have a nice flirty friendship in the meantime, who knows what can happen in the future?
Or you could just go for it and try your luck. Whatever.
2007-03-14 21:05:00 · answer #1 · answered by AlanHB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well forget the fact that she has a boyfriend long distance relationships never last long so dont make a big deal of it becuase that really turns a girl off when you stop talking to her because she has a boyfriend and dont throw yourself at her either just kind of flirt with her now and then tell her she's beautiful then wait till she falls in love with you
2007-03-14 18:17:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got some advice for you, stop bein such a puss and giving her a carnation note that says shes beautiful..you moron..start teasing her, make fun of her, make her jealous of you by flirting with her friends.
One law: we retract from that which pursues us.
in other words if you chase her, she will run away..
its pretty hard to get out of the friends zone into the relationship zone so youre pretty much screwed.
Note for you for the future, if you dont want to be friends with a girl, and you only want a relationship...its better to sway more to the asshole side of ureself then the nice guy side of ureself..
nice guys finish last...any girls who disagree with me, are idiots coz they never consider the nice guy, they always become friends with em but thats it.
hope it helps.
ps..if ure at school, get in to trouble for somethin, girls like bad boys.
2007-03-14 18:20:31 · answer #3 · answered by billjoio28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep talking to her and ask her about her boyfriend every now and then, just to see if you can come in and make the "swoop".
It's hard to tell you what to do, because it really depends on the boyfriend she has currently and what he is like.
More advice at http://www.easyteendating.com.
2007-03-14 18:15:37 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica Kelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand it feels weird to go for someone that you like when that girl already have a boyfriend. Its ok to like someone and trust me i experience this before so i feel you. Its all up to her to decide now, if you find her flirting with you to then talk it out with her and ask her about her feelings.
2007-03-14 18:13:57 · answer #5 · answered by MHD 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is nothing you can do but dont get to mixed up because if they break up the first one she will blame is u but if they do without u being in the middle she will become closer to you just be a good friend and become her best
2007-03-14 18:16:07 · answer #6 · answered by janae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought it is better to find a girl who is unattached rather than a girl who is attached. One day she might just dumped you for other guys too
2007-03-14 19:21:37 · answer #7 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok to establish a lover and untill you get married you are free to interract, but what are your ages are you ready for love and marriege or you are wasting time for one another. remember you are in school.
2007-03-14 18:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by AJosekamjiru 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriend is not a wall. It can be moved.
2007-03-14 18:16:26 · answer #9 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go tell her theres nothing wrong to it. talk to her tell her you like her
2007-03-14 18:16:58 · answer #10 · answered by dave c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋