Well I was raised in a very strong Christian home and my boyfriend wanted me to have sex with him and i said no ! So he broke up with me and he got back with his ex because she would have sex with him. Now he is calling me and wanting me back............. Should I take him back ? I really need to know !!!!!!!! thank you !!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-14 18:07:34 · 23 answers · asked by sugarbabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no no no no no no...stand up for what you believe in and all that stuff. But I will tell you this...sex is so good but even better when there is no guilt attached to it. Stay strong, stay cool babe.
2007-03-14 18:10:38 · answer #1 · answered by Beachbum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you plan on having sex with him this time. Otherwise, let the poor boy off the hook!
Where did this whole "thou art Christian, therefore ye shall not fornicate before marriage" come from anyways? Is it the unknown "11th commandment"?
Do yourself a favor:
If you're gonna be a Christian, start living by GOD's laws, and not by the laws of your religion or those pretending to be holy just so he can get into your son's underpants
2007-03-15 01:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It took me a long time to realize that even once years have passed exes dont often change their stripes. He still wants sex and if youre still not ready then youre not meant to be with him. Whats worse is that if you do take him back you may feel pressured, he may cheat on you because you stick to your guns, and even worse on you you may have to go through the break up all over again. Cut your losses now and stay apart.
2007-03-15 01:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by wherewasgodforthelost 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up with someone and then taking them back is like getting up one morning opening the refrigerator and taking out the milk only to discover that it is sour. Then putting the milk back and waiting six months only to repeat the process. Let's face it what was sour six months ago is still sour. Move on! You're too smart to make such a silly mistake.
2007-03-15 01:11:13 · answer #4 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a committed person? Do you feel that being committed in everyday life is important? You were committed to doing the right thing by telling him no to sex and you should not settle for less. There is someone out there who will respect your feelings alot more. Just be patient!!!!
2007-03-15 01:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by mackdingy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest no he will only do it to you again trust me he's use to having sex and he's a man so he will continue to have sex i don't know many men that goes weeks or months without sex and he's just stringing you along because you are a virgin and he wants to be the first to have sex with you let him be because he will do it to you again when he gets the urge to want sex again he probably really wants to be with you but you two have different morals and if i was you ill be his friend good luck and take care
2007-03-15 01:15:11 · answer #6 · answered by laverne j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldnt if he cant respect your choice to wait till your ready or until you get married no way cause he will probably wind up cheating on you again and you will be in the same spot your in now find someone who you can trust and support your choice i waited till i was 22 and thats a big thing for me i was with someone i loved and in a relationship which i am still in 6 years later so theres no rush to have sex do it when you feel its right for you
2007-03-15 01:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by ~Lisa~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Don't take him back. He doesn't deserve you! This isn't about a second chance, its about that he doesn't have the same values as you and if he really wanted you in the first place he wouldn't have broken up with you. You deserve to have someone that doesn't make you second. You deserve to be someones first choice and only person that they would ever choose.
2007-03-15 01:10:46 · answer #8 · answered by Peggy Pirate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready to have sex? Are you ready to have sex with him? Are you ready to trade in your Christian values? I think you need to follow your head on this one. His pressuring you to have sex was a sign of disrespect. If he truly respected you, he would have accepted your answer and still dated you, waiting until you were ready (hopefully after marriage), not broken up with you so that he could have what he wanted - sex!
2007-03-15 01:11:51 · answer #9 · answered by James H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is something he expects.
Sex isn't something compatible with your beliefs (at least right now).
He has also demonstrated a willingness to sacrifice or risk his relationship with you to get what he needs/wants.
Probably not a good idea to take him back.
You need to seek out someone with a similar religious background and beliefs.
2007-03-15 01:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by Deathbunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋