so okay here is the deal like I have gone out with 4 guys in the past year (year and a half) and every guy I go out with cheats on me and lies to me why the heck does this have to happen to me why does this happen am I like a target to get cheated on it really sux any answers?
2007-03-14 18:06:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Where did you meet these guys? Do they have anything in common, looks, place you met etc etc. If there are common characteristics between these guys, identify them and keep away from similar guys in future.
2007-03-14 18:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're good enough to for them to not want to just dump, but, for those guys at least, something just doesn't click between what they think they want/need emotionally or sexually and what you have to offer...
..so they try to get what they want on the side while trying to hold on to you.
I think I would ask myself "What is it they want that I say 'no' to all the time?"
If there is something you are aware of that answers the question, then ask "Is there a way I could say 'yes' to this without being hurt or taken advantage of?"
If it's yes, consider trying it if the situation presents.
If you draw a blank, then maybe you need to change the pool you're selecting boyfriends from.
2007-03-15 01:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by Deathbunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that.... i've decided that all guys cheat and to just accept it and stop taking relationships so seriously! i treat them the same now, only if a guys in love is there any chance and that doesnt last long anyway! sorry but thats the best i could do :)
2007-03-15 01:13:34 · answer #3 · answered by sleepy18427 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're probably just attracted to men that are likely to cheat. what you do is find someone that you like but aren't instantly attracted to, not too exciting, not too boring, and go out with them...honestly, does no one on here listen to love line?
2007-03-15 01:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you need to find the perfict guy if he cheats or lies stay with him day and night
2007-03-15 01:13:53 · answer #5 · answered by S_C_ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl your not doing a good job picking boyfriends if you have douts that you wont be able to trust them dont go out with them.
2007-03-15 01:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by marianne1993_2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit getting the "popular" people and go for the people that actually have some heart and respect for others.
2007-03-15 01:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you just pick @$$ ho's you will find some one that will not do that to you
2007-03-15 01:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by dober1985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might be that you arel ... now just figure out why , and change it.
2007-03-15 01:10:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋