My boyfreind confessed that he had s relationship with someone which is opposite to what he told me before. I get angry, because he can lie to me anytime as he did.
2007-03-14 18:05:53 · 4 answers · asked by mild 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, it is good he admitted it right now. You just have to keep a close eye on him. You aren't overreacting.
It may be a sign he can't hold a lie, and he had to get it off his chest, by telling you.
It is perfectly normal to do what you did, and everything is fine. Like I said, just keep a closer eye on him.
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2007-03-14 18:09:49 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica Kelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes by continually lying to people about things that cannot easily be proven to be wrong, makes some people feel smarter, more confident in themselves, and therefore gives them more powerful feelings within themselves over the people they lie to.
Maybe just enjoy the humor in it for awhile, or you may try to figure out how they reach such conclusionary or motive-based feelings by doing such lying, so as to help this person reach meaning within themselves, or not.
2007-03-14 18:15:27 · answer #2 · answered by Jack K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a choice.
You can forget what happened in the past and move forwayd with your boyfriend, with the understanding that you are starting fresh. No lies, not cheating, and a promise to try to make things work.
Or....You can go with what your gut is telling you. Is it saying he is going to keep lying to you? Is he going to cheat? If you answer yes to either of hthese questions...move on with your life without him. There are many fish in the sea...and there is a man that will treat you with respect and love. If you treat yourself this way....everyone else will too. Good luck..and think hard about this one, you are worth it.
2007-03-14 18:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young woman, have a life.
2007-03-14 18:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by FlowMaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋