I need some advice?

Question

Okay..... me and my boyfriend bee together for 2 years and we have a child together, well yesterday, me n him was in his moms truck doing somethings..... and then today out of nowhere he calls me n asks me y was there blood on his boxers..... i kno i wasnt bleeding because ther was no blood in my underwear and i wasnt bleeding today so im like hummm.... cuz last night he "supposed" to be going to his brothers house but he went the total oppisite way where hes supposed to go... so then today i prayed and i asked god to show me some signs of him cheating and there it was, wat he asked me, and then when he asked me he hurried off the phone...... and also yesterday when he was at my house he had a phone call n he walked away from me, i mean what did i do to desreve this im a real faithful girl i aint never cheated on him... so y did he do it to me, this just aint addin up so mature people please give advice on what i should do

Welll actaully i do have some proof because when i get his phone hes always gettin mad at me because i go through his phone like hes tying to hide somethin second he always accusing me of cheatin and my mom always told me if he acusses you of somethin hes doing some dirt, no im not from austraila im from vegas, and i take care of our daughter cuz we dont live together.

Answer 1

throw the dog a bone and send him to the dog house

Answer 2

Darling, it could be a misunderstanding. Don't try to put God in this situation although you have asked for the signs. Yes, I am Christian but it could more to it than meets the eye, you know what I mean? As for the blood stains, could have somebody else in the family uses the truck? I am not sure about that but I think you need to ask your bf about it and hope he tell the truth. If you think you still cannot trust him, then I say, end the relationship. it will hurt you further. Good luck.

Answer 3

He got busted! He just dont know it yet! He'd probably be better off if he had kept his mouth shut. But boys/men ....they dont THINK half the time! He's sure acting guilty. Honey, you got to call it like you see it! I'd ask him why he went the other way when he drove off, then ask about the phone call, and then say " you think I'm stupid dont you!" You're busted!
May I reccommend a book called "He's Just Not that Into You" by Greg Behrendt. It may help you shine some light on your situation. Good Luck! Dump him and Move on!

Answer 4

Really, I think that you deserve better than what he did to you. You really should talk this over with one of your close friends/relatives so not all of your emotions stay bottled up and things end up being worse than they are... also pray, it has worked very well (from expierence i know) i think that you should spend the night at someones house aswell that way you can take your mind off of things a little bit. I hope everything workd out for you. Best wishes.
*~Brooke Zeo

Answer 5

Well, there are different ways of approaching this situation. One is beating the crap out of him (I don't recommend it), one is hiring a private investigator, and one is confronting him and asking him what the hell's going on. I'd talk to him first. Then, if he doesn't communicate with you, hire the detective. You'd be surprised with the results. One thing's for sure, be very wary and cautious. And, one more thing, don't place blame until you have proof. Good luck to you.

Answer 6

Look sweetie,most likely if he is older than you he will try to play you stupid.Don't let him,if he feels like being secretive then let him but at the same time you do the same.You see its not fun for him to cheat if he knows that you might know.Make him wonder why you don't care then you will have him asking you questions.If he loves you he will try to give you a darn good explanation if he doesn't try then he doesn't care about your feelings. Good luck.Let me know what happens.

Answer 7

It shows he's not interested in you anymore :)

Like the above person said, "throw the bone......." or something like that.

In my words, "Throw the dude out the window"

What kind of boyfriend do you have, that is secretly in love with someone else?

Im guessing you're from Australia? :) I know this coz, most females who bring a child to this world, end up breakin up with the guy? Are you from Aus?

Take care and dump him plzzzzzzzzzzzzzz :)

Bye

Answer 8

Are you married? If not, walk away. If so, get a divorce. If he's cheating, he'll bring a disease back to you. And why would you want someone like that around your baby? Who takes care of the child? Him? I didn't think so. There's your answer.

Answer 9

It is very important you don't assume he is cheating. Have hardcore proof of it before you end it, if you do.

You have to get to the bottom of this. Sit down with him, and talk with him. Tell him that you think he is cheating. If he still denies it, and you have hardcore proof, you have to do something about it.

If he knows he can do it once, he will do it again.

Unfortunately, I think you would have to end it with him. If he cheated on you once, what will stop him for doing it again?

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Answer 10

This does not prove anything, and it does not need to. You are asking yourself the wrong question. Is he becoming more distant? If he is adress what you know; that you don't feel as close to him. If he doesn't make an effort to become closer or becomes more distant then you should not stay with him. Do you want to stay with someone that is not close to you?

Answer 11

confront him. ask him straight out. tell him how you feel about it. but you also need to expect that he is going ti lie, get angry and even accuse YOU of cheating. you may think life is unfair, but honestly, it is fair. if he's cheating, maybe he's not the guy for you and somehow, I would like to believe that karma will come his way. go find someone who will truly be faithful and someone who truely deserves you... you're worth more than you think you are.. :)