Probably almost anywhere. Think about it; you never know who you are going to meet or see when you get up in the morning. When you're doing your daily activity it just happens.
What you want (decent guy) may not be what someone else wants or their definition of "decent" may be different than yours. People you meet in bars, bowling alleys, the library, schools, civic meetings, etc. are all different and you never know who will be there that is "decent" for you.
It is often said you find the "right" person when you are not searching for them. They just suddenly step into your life, you recognize it, and WHAM! Things start to happen. Trying to find that person sometimes hampers you; you get too anxious about it, you act differently (less relaxed), all kinds of things which change the presentation of your personality.
I'd suggest you go through your normal, daily routines - don't think so much about finding the decent guy. He may be just around the corner and pop up and surprise you.
Good luck! I wish you happiness and a fulfilling life.
2007-03-15 01:14:15
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answer #2
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answered by bobinbelen 2
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Well there are a number of places where you can meet a decent guy. It would however be advisalbe to first think of the things you like doing. Then go to those things and meet a decent guy there. For if you and a guy have things in common, especially common enjoyments then this is a great advantage to a relationship and the source of much happiness.
There however certain charactaristics to decent guys and not so decent guys. And this reflects upon what they do for enjoyment. If you want to find you know what, you'll start searching in a sewer. If you want to find gold, you'll go to the places where gold hangs around. For instance, don't look for a decent guy in PUBS, CLUBS, SINGLE SCENES or ON PARTICUALARLY MACCHO MALE ACTIVITY. The guys you would meet there would be either drunks, gamblers, sex maniacs and players and either phychos or completely absorbed within themselves. Almost all of them would be selfish, greedy, egotistic and completely ignorant of anything fine and delicate in life. And it's a good bet that all of them would be unfaithful. The only decent guys you could find at placed like these are maybe ones who work there.
You could go to church, if you are that way inclined. To sports and gyms, libriaries, martial arts clubs, volunteer groups, social groups, hobbie clubs, bushwalking clubs, political groups(but not the way out ones) or even through adds or ask some friends if they know anywhere or of anyone. There are plenty of decent guys out there. And they, as everything in this life has a footprint, reflect their charactaristics in the activities they do.
But the most important thing, above all others, is if you want to meet a decent guy, the first place to look is in your own heart. To meet and especially keep a decent guy you have to be a decent lady. For not only will you go to the places thereupon and be attracted to and by decent guys-but also you will be trained by your own character to spot and fall in with the types of guys you want. If you are not decent youself you will frequent those places where decent ladies do not go . And there you will find those types of men with which decent ladies do not go with and are not decent types themselves. There is an old saying. You fight as you train. And if you train in being decent yourself and go to those places of decency and benifit then you will be trained in not only the "fight" of meeting them but also the "fight" of the long haul relationship-whereby you , once gotten them, will be able to keep them. And do not judge upon superficial things like wealth, confidence and too much good looks. Many of the other type have these in abundance. Especially confidence. It is the sentative man(although not wimpish) who CARES, who is the decent man you seek and the one who is the best bet of the life you wish to spend for yourself and your children. Do not be fooled by superficialities. But look deeper into the substance and remember that nothing worth it comes easily or quickly. When you are of fine character yourself you will easlity recognise this in other. If you look for selfish reasons, then selfishness ect you will find. If you look for decent reasons then this is what you will find. There are many places, GYMS, SPORT, LIBARIES, SHOPPING CENTRES, HOBBIE GROUPS, ACTIVITY CLUBS, CHURCH, VOLUNTEER ORGANISATIONS, MARTIAL ARTS CLUBS, GOOD POLITICAL PARTIES, FRIENDS, SOCIAL GATHERINGS, PEOPLE OTHER PEOPLE KNOW, ADDS(BUT NOT THE NET) AND A HOST OF OTHERS INCLUDING THE OTHER THINGS YOU LIKE. You sound like a decent lady and I believe you WILL meet a decent guy. Have faith and and genuosity. And you will sucseed. After all this is for you life-and good luck. Hope this helps.
2007-03-15 01:32:24
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answered by Anonymous
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Online, Restaurant, Club, Bar, Country club, Gym, Supermarket
Coffee Shop & Deli outside big office buildings...
2007-03-15 00:58:32
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answered by Anonymous
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