We flirted. We went out. We hit things off, like fireworks. Things were going great. She got scared of something, something from her past, something I was doing, I don't know, but she withdrew. She eventually told me she needed to be on her own. We still talked (a lot!) and inevitably it would come up that I still had very strong feelings for her. On many of those occasions, she "threatened" to stop talking to me altogether. This went on for 3 or 4 months. Now, for the past couple of months, things have come back around. Things are better than ever. I am very happy w/ our rel. now, but I can't seem to shake the idea that I want to know what's changed between us, what she sees differently about me and us. How do I ask her? Do I even bring it up at all or just take this for what it is now and enjoy it? I just don't want to get back into whatever we were going through before.
2007-03-14 17:32:13 · 8 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From my own experience i know that it is sometimes better to leave the past where it is and move on. Enjoy what you have now and forget about what happened before. When she'll feel ready to tell you, she'll do it. Don't let your fears mess things up between you two.
2007-03-14 17:55:04 · answer #1 · answered by Selena C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her. If you dont have communication, what do you have? The ? will always be in the back of your head and you will have doubts.
When she is in a really good mood, bring up the subject of the relationship before...see how she reacts and go from there. Or, show her your ? and wait for an answer.
2007-03-15 00:39:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
something spoked her or she saw reality and then she just had to go back to u being friends and now that u have finally gained some trust from u she's opening up again thinking about going out wit u
2007-03-15 00:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by hot italian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could of been a number of things that was bothering buti say let things be for right now and if it still bothers you in a few weeks bring it up one night and talk itout.
2007-03-15 00:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try talkin to her bout ur relationship and let her know u have a few questions and see how she responds, if she withdraws then back off if not ask away
2007-03-15 00:36:32 · answer #5 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has their secrets it's not your business unless they make it your business. Asking her might aliente her and push her away. Let things go and in time she may learn to trust you and tell you.
2007-03-15 00:38:17 · answer #6 · answered by theoldbgee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus be real ask her up front...dont stress yoself ova some chick its not worth it theres plenty of fishes in the sea if she dont respect your thoughts then move on...
2007-03-15 00:37:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask if she is happier now and is there anything u could do to keep it this way for her? then do what she asks
2007-03-15 00:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by luv_hun_nay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋