She's only 2 years old and I'm 9 already but I am having difficulties taking care of my youger sis because she just kept on beating,pushing,hiting and pincing me.I can't go to my room and do my own busness.I have a maid at home who always scolds me for making my sis cry when I abondened her to do my own busness.How am I going to control my life because my sis is very close to me although she bullies me everytime.Help please?????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-14 17:19:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
I have already told my parents about this and they already scolded her but she still continues.
2007-03-14 18:48:17 · update #1
Have you talked to your parents?
2007-03-14 17:24:08 · answer #1 · answered by Deja28 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My sister and I are 7 years apart too! We went through all that stuff that you guys are going through. We are now 24 and 18 and very good friends. I'm sorry but I really can't tell you how to make her stop cause I never figured it out. In a couple of years it will be easier cause you will be almost a teen and so busy you won't even notice her anymore.Just remember that she is only two and doesn't know any better. Maybe you should try and set aside a certain time or certain activity that the two of you can sped together. That way she gets your attention and then later you get your space. It sounds like she's trying to get your attention, so give it to her in this positive way and show her how to act with you. Hopefully this will work. Good luck!!!!
2007-03-22 18:48:26 · answer #2 · answered by Joy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set a certain time of the Day to do something just with her.Do something just with her that she likes to do.Color,read a book to her,play dress up or whatever she likes.Then explain to her that after time you spend with her you get time just for yourself.Ask your parents if it's OK with them first,hopefully they won't mind.And then you both win.Remember since you are the big sister she will always look up yo you.You are her good example,and remember she is only two she doesn't know ant better.Good luck,I hope you both can work out your problems.
2007-03-22 13:00:15 · answer #3 · answered by cynomynG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is 2 you are 9... Why are you taking care of her if you have a maid/nanny? But to answer your question, if she bits you bite her back. Same with the hitting and pinching. She has to learn not to do that and if she understands what it feels like when someone bites you or hits you she may not do it again.
My daughter bit me once and I bit her back. Can I tell you, she never did that again.
2007-03-21 13:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by leilani_adelaide 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problems when I was at your age .but try to be calm and when she does these thing that means that she needs and wants to share some thing with you.like when you are trying to do your home works make her sit near you and give her pencils and papers and say ' now we will study lessons with my sis now ' and share comments with her about the drawings.or you want to read a book say 'come on we will both read now show me your book and sit here you know grown up girls read books like this ' when she feels that you really like her and like to share moments with her she will feel happy and in the end she will think that that is not so much fun to be a grown up and think ' I better go to my room.I will have more fun there' please be patient she will grow up soon.dont forget make her feel that you love her so much.
2007-03-20 04:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by melis m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you spoke with your parents? at this age consistency is key. Time outs things like that arent going to work if theyre not done every time she does something naughty. I suggest having a sit down with your parents and other care givers and every one agreeing on disciplinary actions. These are all habits that would be frowned upon in say a day care setting but are also easily picked up so kaboshing them early is key.
2007-03-15 00:25:27 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica J 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
do something like...give her candy...tell her she doesnt hit
you'll give her candy..show her the candy treat her..if you
whant to stop the hiting...make sure you have the candy when she is at it...oooo the outher thing is she's 2 thats what
kids do...i have a 6 year old sis like that..good luck...and good day..
2007-03-22 17:31:32 · answer #7 · answered by hot chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call SuperNanny
2007-03-21 13:26:54 · answer #8 · answered by Sara *Life is so unlike theory* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a 9 year old on da computer @ dis time. go 2 sleep
2007-03-15 00:24:59 · answer #9 · answered by faduma a 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
DEAR
REALLY TALK TO YOUR PARENTS MAKE THEM SEE THERE LITTLE ANGEL IS NOT ALL SHE IS CRACKED UP TO BE LIKE PLAYING ALL NIECE NIECE TO YOU MAKE THEM SEE THE LIGHT BETWEEN DAY AND NIGHT .
IF THEY DO NOT THEN WHEN YOU AND HER ARE A LONG SPANK HER BOTTOM REALLY GOOD SHE WILL BE SO NICE YOUR PARENTS WANT BE-ABLE TO STAND IT TRUST ME OK
TAKE CARE
2007-03-15 03:17:52 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋