Just tell her when she asks these questions that you would prefer to leave your personal life at home and concentrate on your job. Any supervisor who has a problem with this should be reported to their supervisor because most companies have policy that if you have problems or such at home it needs to stay at home. As for her critiquing you that is just stupid of her look like a ***** since she doesn't know the rule that if she can't say anything nice that she shouldn't say anything at all.
2007-03-14 17:22:35
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answered by MOMMY585 5
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The supervisor is NOSEY. Your personal life, style, etc., is none of anyone's business other than your own.
Some people have an insatiable curiosity about other's private lives, I guess their's is boring. It also irks them that you (and me) do not share our personal information at work. Their problem. Not yours (or mine).
You are paid to work not paid to make friends with people you normally would not befriend, and from the sound of your question, it sounds that you are content to do just that. Nothing wrong with that at all. It is your choice.
If she questions you staying to yourself, try saying "I am content" in a nice tone of voice. No explanation is required.
2007-03-15 05:09:41
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answered by Pacifica 6
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Had a ex co-worker like that myself a few years ago, when I was in my 20's. She drove me nuts and no matter what I did or said she had something to say. I still think about her today and how would I handle her.
Today, I respond with a question, like why do you want to know or You know the answer why bother asking, thats a great question let me get back to you.
2007-03-14 17:22:48
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answered by Just ME 5
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Anybody can be overtaken by good behaviour.
Y don't u try giving her gifts, wish her good greet her every morning.
She may get friendly.
Friendliness can not harm u but enemies can.
So its better to be friendly with her instead of getting angry and loosing ur mood.
She may have problem or not but try to make ur day pleasant and pefrom well in ur job.
Ignore her negetive comments atleast for 10 times. Don't neglect her replying try the motivational powerpoint slide shows over the web.(u can google for it)
Make ur job a success and don't become a prey to others' comments try to be u instead of reacting to others.
Have a nice day.
2007-03-14 19:04:53
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answered by Imthath 3
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One, she sounds like a passive agressive jerk. Two, she has boundary issues - a supervisor should NOT be insulting her subordinates about their hairstyle choices nor should she be pestering them with questions about their personal lives.
By the way, she's also putting herself and the company at risk for a sexual harassment lawsuit by asking about the personal lives of her subordinates!
She has to decide, is she a friend of her subordinates, or is she their supervisor! Apparently, she can't manage being both, so she needs to choose!
2007-03-14 17:23:38
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answered by Anonymous
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Just act like what they say does not bother you. When they say something negative say something positive. Chances are they are saying negative things to others, so if you hear them complement that other person in front of you supervisor. Eventually their attitude will change. I used to have the same problem.
2007-03-14 17:23:22
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answered by QUESTIONMARK 1
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answered by ? 4
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This sounds like an insecure person. Her opinion is worthless to you, as she feels a sense of superiority over you by degrading you. I would just totally ignore this person except for what your job requires. Don't let other peoples opinions get to you. You are giving them power over you, and that is partially your own fault. Forget about her comments, you are probably a better person...correct?
2007-03-14 17:50:33
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answered by Anonymous
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The fact that you ended your question with "what is her problem" already projects a negative tone from you.
Look at what kind of relationship you have with this person. Are you jealous of them- are you slacking in areas that they have had to talk to you about?
It seems you are looking for a way to BURN this person. I could be wrong- but have been at this business thing a lot of years.
2007-03-14 17:17:26
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answered by Mommyk232 5
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My God woman get over it ! I think your esteem is very low. What are you paranoid ? Maybe you hair looked bad. Maybe your dress is, shall we say old. Perhaps your makeup is a little strong or perfume, rancid. Think of critical people as caring people. Because if they didnt care, they wouldnt say something. Its the people who dont say anything that are truly out to get you.
2007-03-14 18:37:32
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answered by Gator fan 483 2
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