I'm a white guy married to a white girl.. Why do I have such a raw fascination with black girls. I've never been with one and I wonder what it would be like to be with a black girl 24-7. How do I handle this problem without getting into trouble? Also are black girls into white guys?
2007-03-14 16:40:44 · 10 answers · asked by Adam B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey isint that a spike lee movie
2007-03-14 16:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you kidding? You need to have that raw fascination with your wife - you're married! It's okay to notice and fantasize, but there is no way for you to handle the problem without getting in trouble. You live in a place where interracial dating is all around you, so of course, there are black girls who are into white guys. I say, fantasize all you want, but DO NOT act on that fantasy. Start to appreciate your wife for what you appreciated her for in the beginning. There's always getting your wife to dress up and maybe act something out.
2007-03-14 16:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by downinmn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man you should have thought about that before you got married. To be honest it's not as different as you may think they're all women in my book black, white, asian, hispanic etc. The biggest difference is the culture and background. I don't think that there is a way to handle it unless your wife is into bringing other women in your bed. And yes some black women go for white guys.
2007-03-14 16:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha. Ok, you're just having second thoughts because you're a younger guy (I would bet on it) and now you feel like you can't see what's out there. Let me tell you, Asian, Hispanic, Black, White, a woman is a woman. There is no genetic advantage in the bedroom, they simply have different skin color and features. You aren't missing out. And yes, some black women like white guys. However, get some interracial porn, take care of business and get over it.
2007-03-14 16:46:53 · answer #4 · answered by Pete 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I work at a restaurant and I see the black girl/white guy all the time. I am sure there are video's to help with your fascination. Don't ruin a marriage over a fantasy or desire, you might be disapointed.
2007-03-14 16:44:23 · answer #5 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh, you are MARRIED so why don't you take your alleged "jungle fever" to your own relationship? It's just an excuse because you are not plugged in to your own marriage. If you want to play around, then get divorced. Men are so wimpy--they want the security of marriage but they want to stick their willies everywhere else, too. Maybe you'll get a disease that will make your dick fall off and then your problem will be solved!
2007-03-14 16:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
join a swing club and look for black members
who knows maybe your wife is into black guys but does not want to tell you about it
2007-03-14 17:00:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem, but it's with Latinas. I think u should masturbate to black porn. But u probably do that anyway.
2007-03-14 16:56:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that sounds like a personal problem.. are you sure thatyou didnt get married to soon?
2007-03-14 16:44:03 · answer #9 · answered by Alex 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
god help you when the wife finds out...
2007-03-14 16:44:00 · answer #10 · answered by KRIS 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋