Lately, my boyfriend and I have been having some communication problems in our relationship. He kept telling me that I needed to be more open with him and tell him how I feel. So, a few days ago, I said something to him that unintentionally hurt his feelings a lot. He stormed off without saying anything. I talked to him the next day, and he sounded really hurt. He ended up saying that we shouldn't be together anymore. I tried apologizing and saying that I didn't mean to hurt him, but he wouldn't even listen. I feel horrible for causing him so much pain. At the same time, I can't believe our relationship is over. I have feelings for this guy. I don't want to lose him like this. I don't know what to do.
2007-03-14 16:34:07 · 5 answers · asked by sun_chips 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call his bluff. Don't call him anymore. You're chasing him and he's lovin it. Give it a few days and see if he calls you. If he doesn't, then it wasn't meant to be... because if he cares about you, he will forgive you. No one is perfect.
2007-03-14 16:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by Nunya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to apologize. Profusely. Then give him a little time to come around.
In the future, please understand that being honest and open with one another doesn't mean you can say cruel things. It's best to be honest and open about yourself and not others.
2007-03-14 23:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, he asked for it. If he can't handle it, then either he shouldn't ask or he should go get therapy for it, but in no way should you feel guilty for saying what you feel.
2007-03-14 23:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be real and talk to him - don't give up :)
2007-03-14 23:36:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a new b/f, dog.
2007-03-14 23:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by leroy_w_jackson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋