I have been hanging out with this one girl for the last 3-4 weeks, it went very very good at the beginning. However, i guess i have rushed too fast. I was going to set up a very nice romantic date but i guess she got werid out about it because she just broke up with ex about 2 months ago. Things got a little bit downhill and she doesnt seem as interested in me as before and now i am the active one who does all the texting and calling. Now, i have heard that she likes some other guy and she is going to prom with someone( she grauated a semester early and she goes to college now). we are on springbreak now, the last time i talked to her was 6 days ago. it was me who texted her but she didnt text me back. I also called her that night because i got bored driving, however she didnt call back, i still didnt hear from her the whole break. Now here is the question, should i wait for her to call or text me and tell me whats going on? or I should call her to ask whats going on?
2007-03-14 16:33:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't call her. Men seem too clingy when they do. Either wait out your jealousy, and she'll realize who is the real one who was there for her (I know it's hard but hard work pays off!) and don't text her for at least 2-3 weeks. By this time she will forget any 'annoyance' she may be harbouring because she felt too clinged upon and will respond. Then you can ask her like "Hows whats his face" or what not. Women despise clingy men.
2007-03-14 16:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call her, you have already called/texted her a couple of times without a response--now the ball is in her court. Give her a week or so to contact you. If she doesn't, I would say move on. If you are looking for a more serious relationship (which it sounds like you are), and she isn't--it won't work out anyway.
Good luck!
2007-03-14 16:42:16 · answer #2 · answered by janie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give her a call and flat out ask what is going on. You should ask her where she stands on you as a couple and whether or not there is any truth behind her liking some other guy, etc. It may feel dorky but the best way to find something out is to go straight to the source! You may never know what's really going on with her unless you ask her directly!
Good luck!
2007-03-14 16:40:24 · answer #3 · answered by jttrwffle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, do not call or text her. You will only be making a pest out of yourself. Just continue to stay active in the things that you like doing. When she sees that you are keeping yourself busy then she will more than likely take notice of you, and will be more receptive of your advances.
2007-03-14 16:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by DARMADAKO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to me...ive played this game before as a female. She is NOT as into you as you are into her. DO NOT call or text her. Believe me, she got ur texts and calls and she is choosing not to answer you because her heart is somewhere else. If you keep pushing, she will only push away farther. And in the end you look like the desperate one.
2007-03-14 16:39:57 · answer #5 · answered by jenina_01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
send her roses.
2007-03-14 16:39:31 · answer #6 · answered by j_timberLate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋