After my last posting - life after getting rid of "jerk" boyfriend. Some people adviced to find a decent person. Is it that easy? Does that really happen?
2007-03-14 16:33:06 · 8 answers · asked by sweethoney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you know,, when you are in a relationship, there seems to all ways be a lot of options, but the minute that you're single,, Wham! it seems as though all the doors are closed, and you're left out in the cold... just hang tight and the right guy will come along... good luck
2007-03-14 16:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by Traynor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys are everywhere, you just don't notice them. Think about it, do you have any male friends that seem nice, but you wouldn't date them. If so, that proves that there are nice guys around, but for some reason you put them in the friend category first, instead of seeing them as a potential partner. If you do have guy friends, maybe you should reexamine those friendships and see if you could date any of them.
Don't use the excuse that you are afraid of ruining the friendship, because most guys are only friends with girls that they want to date.
2007-03-14 23:38:59 · answer #2 · answered by Pyth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,it took me almost 20 yrs of dating to find a nice one. It's not that there are a lack of nice guys. The problem is that when your young so many of the "men" are still boys. (And some of the men remain boys long after that.)LOL I was a city girl who was lucky to meet a nice country boy....I can tell you that the people in this area are so much nicer. Men actually open doors for you here!!! I have been w/ my man almost 4 yrs now and he still opens doors for me, pumps my gas, and knows how to lay the pipe down. Look for a country boy that's been raised on a farm. They know what it is to work and family and friends mean more to them than their city counterparts!
2007-03-14 23:44:45 · answer #3 · answered by LUCY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Takes time to get yourself back in gear mentally, meanwhile, just go on about your business, and do things that you like to do, with people you like. You can't find your identity through another person, so learn about your own likes and dislikes. You will meet another man, and this time around, be slower in accepting offers. Let him know that you are special and not just a pushover who is lonely. Take a night school class and you will be surprised by the way people will surface. Works for me and I am a senior lady. Best wishes.
2007-03-14 23:42:36 · answer #4 · answered by tylernmi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the rush??? Take this time to have fun doing whatever the hell you want to do!! Life is short, why spend it trying to find the "one"...just live your life and see what happens....and finding a decent person is hard, that's why you should just try to live your life to the fullest while you can...with NO regrets!!!
2007-03-14 23:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by Sol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes, just look for someone new, and find out as much as you can about them. if you don't like them then don't settle for them and keep looking and yes it does happen. it did to me.
2007-03-14 23:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what happens depends on u. u have to look for a better guy. believe it or not, its that easy..
2007-03-14 23:37:34 · answer #7 · answered by luv_hun_nay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
us nice guys are everywhere................you just never give us the time of day.........
2007-03-15 00:23:38 · answer #8 · answered by Clementine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋