He did me wrong in many ways, so I told him to move out. After all, I cant let someone treat me bad. But now after a week of not being able to see him and hold him and love him every day I feel like my heart is broken and battered. I miss him so much and its killing me. I really dont know how to get through the next hour, let alone the next day. The problem is that time is not healing, its making it worse. I have been keeping busy but the pain is always there. I really dont know if I can go on anymore. Should I try to get him back and lose what pride I have left after all his lies and cheating, or do I just continue to slowly die inside?
2007-03-14 16:31:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't put pressure on yourself because he did you wrong. This is his loss not yours. Faith in yourself will allow you to get through the next hour and the next day. You loved him and that is what's killing you inside. You loved a man who cheated and lied to you, done you wrong in many ways. Why would you want him back? Healing takes time and it will be rough. You just have to have faith in yourself knowing that what you did took courage and pride. It will only make you stronger as a person and will shape who you are. Embrace the pain you feel for it will teach you things and open your eyes to a new perspective in way you never thought it could! Good luck!
2007-03-14 16:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by ~M*a*N*d*Y~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would u want to be with someone who did u wrong like that? If you got back with him, all you would be doing is wondering if he is lying or cheating. Maybe you are in love with the idea of being with him or having someone. Give it some time, the pain will subside, you probally deserve someone so much better than that
2007-03-14 23:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is a question i can relate to: about 10 months ago, i went through the same thing that you are going through, honey, as bad as i hate to tell you this the pain will always be inside... you still have to go on with your life. nobody deserves to be treated bad. you just couldn't take the hurt anymore, you have to bury it down inside. even though the pain is still there you wil get stronger. i still think about the one i split up with every day , but i'm getting stronger.
2007-03-14 23:54:13 · answer #3 · answered by bobby wwhatever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time does not heal - it is what you do with the time that heals.
Keep busy doing things you didn't have time to do when he was with you. Tkae up a new hobby buy a pet. The pain will ease thats a certainty. Don't sell yourself short in order to hold onto him
2007-03-14 23:38:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prayed for you to move on.And thats what I think you need to do,because he will always do you wrong.Youll eventually get over your broken heart,just take it one day at a time.Its okay to cry over him,but its also okay to laugh and smile with your friends.You dont have to be sad,you can still try to live your life.Youll be okay,God will find you someone good.Maybe if you get into church,then youll find someone there. Maybe,or God might put you with someone who is lost,and youll be the person who brings them to their senses and theyll begin to serve our Great Lord.Hope this helped.
2007-03-14 23:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him enough to indure the lies and cheating than i guess you should get him back but maybe you should just have a good cry and hang out w/ some friends
2007-03-14 23:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Selena♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is never a long road without a bend.
Someone else will come along to fill the void.
Keep the faith.
2007-03-14 23:35:07 · answer #7 · answered by kyle.keyes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most girls like to be treated like crapp. Be his door mat again, and make yourself feel better.
2007-03-14 23:36:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Buy some cats.
2007-03-14 23:35:54 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋