I've been friends with this guy for over six years. When we first met we went to the movies and kissed. After that he waited a month to ask to hang out again. By this time I was "seeing" someone. Since then i have been in two long term relationships. This guy and I still talk and hang out. I was currently single up til march 1. He asked me to be his girlfiend and how hes being waiting 6 years to ask me. Thats cute, but he hasnt dated anyone in 4 years. He didnt want to date anyone while being in college. We hardly talk, we havent hung out yet, and it feels so awkward. Im not sure what to do. I know im not 100% over my ex, whom i datd for over 3 years and we borke up cause of military/distance (his choice). I do like my friend but Im not sure if dating him is the right thing to do. Ive never dated a friend before. Any suggestions would be great!
2007-03-14 16:30:22 · 8 answers · asked by Aj 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't have to be 100 percent over someone to start dating again.
Not dating anyone for 4 years could mean a few things, but it doesn't mean he would be a bad date. Do you want to go out on a date? Just one won't hurt. And if things don't click, you can go back to being friends.
2007-03-14 16:35:28 · answer #1 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
absolutely do not date this guy! This guy sounds like pure stalker. He has been waiting around for you for 6 years. I'm sure you are an awesome person, but that doesn't seem weird to you at all? anyone that does that is as socially unadjusted as you can be. and if this was someone you wanted to date you would have the first time around. be his friend but keep your distance as well. this guy needs to get his own life and date someone else in stead of pining over you.
2007-03-14 23:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by shawn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No,it's not wrong it seem like this guy really cares about you bu tel him that your just not ready and if he doesn't except it and wont stop bringing it up drop him if it's the other reaction though go be with the man that excepts you for who you are!
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2007-03-14 23:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by coconaut 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you hardly talk, then you have nothing to lose. Just go for it. If it doesn't work out, then it doesn't work out. He has probably been crazy about you the entire time you have known him.
2007-03-14 23:35:16 · answer #4 · answered by Pyth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's so sweet that he was waiting for you! You should go out with him, but remind him that if things don't work out that you should still be friends.
2007-03-14 23:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by BMW 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the friend seemed to Truth worthy towards u,date him u will feel good
2007-03-14 23:40:20 · answer #6 · answered by milli n 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you won't know if it's right or wrong until you date him. don't be afraid, you might miss out on the best experience of your life.
2007-03-14 23:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by billyjoemikey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you don't really want to go for it, and it feels awkward, don't.
2007-03-14 23:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by Zasm 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋