how do you get a guy to notice you without going straight up to them ( im not that brave lol) what are things that make guys want to go talk to a girl that they dont know or barely know. Im very outgoing with most things except for this can you please give me some ideas thank you !!!!
2007-03-14 16:21:44 · 22 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A nice smile. If you're attracted to said guy, try staring off in his general direction, and smile. If he looks, turn away, but thn quick glance back over at him, and if he's still looking, smile again, maybe even laugh. It's a strange way of indirect flirting I've noticed that girls do, but it works. It gets the point across that you might like him, and leaves the guy wondering about it.
Other than that, just make yourself look nice. Dress well, be clean, keep your hair nice...stuff like that. I don't know how other guys are, but a girl's eyes, hair, and smile are what do it for me.
If all else fails, take your notebook and throw it across the room at him and act like nothing happened. He'll look at you, I guarantee it.
If you're really that afraid to approach him, just give him naughty looks from a distance. Maybe that will turn him on and make him come talk to you instead, haha. I really don't know what to tell you.
2007-03-14 16:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Things aren't going to warm up for you and any guy until you break the ice so to speak and the only way you are going to get a guy to notice you is to present yourself to him ,,,, I mean no one can read your mind and if you like any certain guy then he's not going to know what's going on in your head either ,,,, Just make yourself noticed by him and simply start a conversation ,,,, Ask him questions (not too personal at first) about him ,,,, Maybe he'll have questions to ask you after a while too ,,,, Just be open and honest with him and let nature take it's course from there ,,,, You are going to have to beat down this shyness thing though or you won't get anywhere with any guy ,,,, What ever you do ,,,, don't do anything childish like having some one intercede for you ,,,, Allot of people think that's the answer to problems like this but it's just childish ,,,, Having some one talk to him for you just might produce a negative effect ,,,, He just might figure that if you haven't got the nerve to talk to him in person then he might not want anything to do with you ,,,, I mean you are the one looking for a relationship with him not the friend you'd send to do your talking for you ,,,,
It's more than obvious that this clown calling himself Boo Shniggins has no idea what he's talking about lolol ,,,,
2007-03-15 00:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just kinda flirt a little. Make sure he knows ur alive. Become more than just, oh a girl in my class or somethin. You don't have to walk right up to him, but you do have to get up and make him notice you. I notice girls who like to have a good time, and that i can have a good time with. Try to talk to him a little bit, even if it's just like a "hi" everyday until you get enough courage to work something else up.
Pretty much just stand out of the crowd and be the girl he wants, not the girl he could care less about.
2007-03-14 23:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by Chris W 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hmm you could try getting into a conversation with him via a friend or ask him for some help with something, lol something you know how to do so when he shows you, you just do it and you look smart and he looks like a good teacher ( smiles all round lol ) anyway, there lot of things you can do like that. Good luck BTW
2007-03-14 23:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by Sorta Undead 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't have to be so brave as obvious! Most guys are stupid when it comes to girls! Start by stairing at him, and when he looks at you, give him a shy smile and kinda look away, but still keep his gaze out of the corner of your eye. Most guys usually know what to do from there!
2007-03-14 23:29:28 · answer #5 · answered by Xavier 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk loudly, about the guy very near him to make sure that he hears what you say about him, good things, like how cute he is, or how your going to go to the a certain restraunt and how you have no one to go with you stuff like that so that if he does get intrested he knows where to find you, talk with a very close friend and make sure she knows what u are doing
2007-03-14 23:26:49 · answer #6 · answered by Dillon C (who else) 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find out what the guys likes and then ask him about it. When you talk to him, smile at him and be interested (hard to do when you're not). Once you get a conversation going it's fairly easy from that point.
2007-03-14 23:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by Meridianhawk42 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Look him straight in the eye and smile. A smile is more encouraging than anything to let someone know it is okay to approach or that you are interested.
Wow! I see that the thumbs down fairy has been out in force on this question.
2007-03-14 23:26:38 · answer #8 · answered by auburn 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Be that brave, go straight up to him, or he'll never notice. It's scientifically proven that guys have bad peripheral vision.
2007-03-14 23:25:40 · answer #9 · answered by Boo-shniggins 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i have the same problem!!
outgoing but don't know what to say around guys because most are friends of a friend!!!
lol
2007-03-14 23:26:55 · answer #10 · answered by purplegirl1516 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋